Intense feeling for girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I’m going to keep this very clean and short. I am in what I would say is my only serious relationship. I have been talking to this girl everyday, all day for quite some time now and I can safely say that I have fallen madly in love with her. She’s told me all about her life and I’ve told her all about mine. With everything I learn about her and with each passing day, I fall deeper and deeper in love with her.

I’m not making this post just to say that I’m in love with a woman but checking to see if anyone else can relate with this very intense feeling of love for this person where you just want to give and do everything for them. Even if this woman never did anything for me I would still be madly in love with her. Even if we were never to have s*x and if she were never were to give me access to her body, I would still love her. Is this feeling normal? Can anyone else relate. It’s kinda embarrassing 😣. Wanting to cook and clean for her and make her the happiest woman in the world.

We’ve already exchanged I loved toys and do on a consistent basis.. Sometimes when we’re talking she’ll joking reject my advances and that just makes me love her all the more 😫 (maybe it’s the thrill of the chase 🤔)

I don’t know. Please do share advice. Thank you all :)

[PrettyPriya]

I absolutely know this feeling. This is exactly what happened to me when I started dating my now husband. It was electric... magic... whatever you want to call it. That is what happened when I met the love of my life. He swept me off my feet.

Looking back, I can honestly say that I was the luckiest girl in the world. It was by complete chance that we met. I work as an office admin at a doctor's office and he happened to have a sports injury that he came if for treatment.

The second time he came back, I decided to make a move and struck up a conversation. The excitement was unreal. Things went well and I asked him to have lunch with me. The rest is history. We married at the end of last year (newlyweds).

I know that feeling all too well because I still get it today, even after all this time that we have been together. That is how I know it is truly love. I still get that butterfly feeling from him all the time. I would not change a thing about the moment we met until we married.

[Asker]

So happy to hear that. I pray we have so blessed and fortunate to have the same future. Thanks for sharing and take care!

[PrettyPriya]

Thanks for the kind words! You never know, you could be marching towards the same thing right now. Best of luck to both of you. Best advice is don't little the little things get in the way. Focus on the big picture.

[Changiis07]

That's amazing and she is one lucky girl. I hope it all works well for you both because it's such a genuine pure true love when you love her for who she is and it's not just about sex but you're getting to know all of her likes a dislikes. I hope this spark continues later on

[Asker]

THANK YOU!!

[Guy13]

Your spigot is wide open so close it.. Shut it off at the Main so it don’t back up and flood the house or she’s going to snake and drain that line until the City and Bank have to shut it off at the Street.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 what are you trying to say exactly?

[Guy13]

@Akam93 It is a plumbing analogy, applicable to a building, where a pipe goes at the sinks, in the walls, or ceiling. It is not the time to get all emotionally crazy under pressure. It is the time to stop and think what to do. Fix starts from the inside and depending type/origin of leak

This guy is such an in love train wreck that he does not even see, in his words and perspective, what he is doing to himself. He needs to shut off that kind of thinking.
She is going to suck the life out of him IF he means what he says and she is slightly manipulative with a sense of Self... a little bit of "worship me" in her. From what I gather this guy is to far gone to find the potential denial and worship me as a negative thing.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 well I understand what that means since you explained it. I know your being realistic about the situation but still it is sweet. I dont expect a guy to worship me just treat me and love me right.

[Asker]

@Guy13 hello! Can I just ask you very quickly, what do you think the differenence between love and worship? Can you give me an example of both of them? I wouldn’t want to be worshipping a woman and that thought did pop into my head here and there.

[KrakenAttackin]

Here's the problem, she has you wrapped and she knows it. Like a cat toying with a mouse she will eventually get bored if you.

[Asker]

You really think that’s the case?

[KrakenAttackin]

I know women value validation and attentive more than "love".

[Selene1600000]

Yes, that feeling is normal, especially in a first serious relationship where emotional intimacy feels new, exciting, and overwhelming all at once. A lot of people can relate to wanting to care for someone deeply, make their life easier, and love them beyond just physical attraction, because real attachment often shows up through nurturing and emotional devotion. The only thing to watch out for is losing yourself completely in the relationship or putting her on such a high pedestal that your happiness depends entirely on her responses, because healthy love still needs balance and self-respect alongside the intensity.

[Akam93]

I think its sweet. Hopefully she feels the same way. I would love it myself.

[Asker]

I hope she feels the same way too. If she doesn’t, what would you say of the situation?

[Akam93]

You dont want to ask me that question. I never had that experience before.

[exitseven]

You sound like you are in deep doo doo

[Asker]

Why would you say that?

[exitseven]

She is not serious about you and you will ultimately get hurt.