For those of you not into monogamy, what are the perks of being with more than one person? (Page 2)

DizzyDesii · 2023-01-12T22:40:36Z

I’m honestly too jealous to share. And i feel trapped being shared. So i feel monogamy or even simply remaining single is best for me. There was a time where love triangles were my thing. I think it started in childhood. I didn’t get along well with girls and always had two good guy friends. I probably was in about 1 in preschool, 3 in elementary, 2 in high school, 4 in college, and I lost count after that. I often felt overwhelmed and guilty for having options. I didn’t intentionally get into love triangles, but I didn't stop them either. After college, to ease the guilt, I would tell both dudes about each other up front... not in hopes they’d compete but in hopes they’d be patient with my decision (if they chose to stick around). I liked how they balanced me out and one dude would match me emotionally while the other shared my sexual interests. But I wouldn’t be physical until having made a decision. When I couldnt choose, I’d just drop both. When I could choose, I often felt obligated to choose whoever I knew the longest, despite him not being my true choice. Or when i felt like I loved one, I’d choose him despite the one who took things at a slower pace being the one who truly made me happy. I dealt with this shit too many times and just never want to feel that way again. So i feel getting into something possibly worse like polygamy wouldn't work for me. Anyways, I said I’d change my ways when 2020 hit and I definitely toned it down. The tempting thought still tries to creep up on occasion, but I’m just glad I don’t allow myself to have close male friends anymore. Nothing good will come of it if things don’t stay platonic #FeelFreeToList

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Msputiton Follow
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Good question

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Guardian45 Follow
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Double the chances of a date anytime!🥵😈💜

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Lmao
  
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I can only be with one person

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  I prefer that as well. But deep down I question myself
  
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- TrillXHippy
  
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  Why what happened?
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Nothing. I just look back and question what I deserve or if what i want is too good for me
  
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- TrillXHippy
  
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  Well the the guy that you have a lot in common with thinks you and him deserve each other and he isn’t too good for you. I just hope someday that we can meet
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Dang everytime i try not to smile lol
  
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Mark987 Follow
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Never been... but multiple partners

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I actually get to have a fuckin life.

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Wish4UrB00ty Follow
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Well plaid!!

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  Your spelling is getting worse 😩
  
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- Wish4UrB00ty
  
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  🤦‍♂️
  
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I mean i love blowing dudes more than anything

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  Oh you in like mmf or something
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Mmf mmm i don't mind
  
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