Is it possible to get over my ex?

[Engin12]

There was love between us when we were in high school but now she's probably with someone else. She liked me and I feel like I missed my chance with her. I remember her time to time because she showed me love and I lost her because we moved to another city with my parents. Its disturbing to think about that I lost her.

[Guy13]

Relationship Trauma comes from two sources: Firstly, it was perfect and the couple that everyone wanted to be in the professional, charitable, church, and kid/vacation worlds. And the B- dumps you and runs off with the pool boy.

Secondly, emotional and physical scaring that one keeps hearing and seeing over and over again.

If not either one of those kinds of things Above; then get off your arse and make a new life for yourself... Enough with the whining for no reason.

[sage2021]

Hi! Because of the internet, there are people just like you that had a high school love but went separate ways. Then one of them found the other many years later and contacted the person. They reconnected and even ended up getting married.
The spark was still there! Go for it ❤️

[kylee2437]

You aren’t over someone that many years? Lol you don’t even know her anymore

[Engin12]

I know that she loved me and I dont wanna forget about that. I think about her time to time even if there is a long time passed. Its hard for me to move on because I never give up on women. I can do anything I want and nothing is impossible. I dont even wanna think about that I lost her. I hate that feeling

[kylee2437]

@Engin12 I think you just need to come to terms that you really don’t even know her anymore lol this isn’t healthy to hold onto someone that long

[kylee2437]

I’ll put it into better perspective. I got back into contact with one of my high school exes recently, I felt like I didn’t know him at all. Personality changed, seemed like he had a log of baggage. That might not be the case with this girl, but you are holding onto a personality from years ago

[XHopelessRomanticX]

It’s definitely possible. And it’s perfectly okay to grieve for what was lost and for what might have been. In fact, that’s part of the process of letting go. Love is a beautiful thing, and it’s wonderful knowing that we as humans can love others so deeply. Take this time in your life to give thanks for the love she has shown you, and the love you were able to show her. And hold fast to the hope that such a love can be felt again.

[Anonymous]

Of course it is, people do that every day of the week. Its part of the dating process.

[In_Trance]

it is if you want to