Have you ever lied about being with someone?

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There was a rumor going around my job that I was sleeping with the cook (RJ) who happens to be the bartender (Apple) boyfriend. I had no idea that I was apart of this rumor until the other cook (Bob) asked me. Bob and I are friends. He told me that RJ told him that he had a one night stand with me… I was in disbelief. Why would this grown man sit up and lie and say he had a one night stand with me. Bob knows he’s lying which I feel so much better about but RJ had the bartender (Apple) thinking that I was sleeping with her man. I don’t even find this man physically attractive. He’s got a mini Afro and a missing side tooth…. And he’s a cook. Not even my type. I feel disgusted.. this man is old enough to be my dad.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Lol is he the one who kept trying to hit on you through text 😂 And no i haven't lied about being with someone but they lied about being with me. In high school, My ex’s cousin used to go around saying i gave him some of the best head aka firehead. #1  He and i happened during the summer. It was sort of a revenge plot on his part because my ex had cheated on me and slept with his girlfriend. Both of us were single at the time and in retaliation we hung out then made out. He had me grinding on his lap topless so I let em suck these tits. I had no problem with people knowing that part (had he told it).  #2  I started to let him finger me and i was gonna jerk him off but his dick looked like a burnt hot dog so I found it too unappealing to touch so i made him keep his boxers on. Plus I didn't like how his fingernails looked so i told him he couldnt finger me.  #3  I kissed down his neck and chest bt moved right back up to his lips and we continued making out. I’ll never forget the mf had been drinking gatorade so his kisses were salty and he kept slithering his tongue like a snake. SO AT THIS POINT, he already got more pros than cons. he's cute but he got ugly hands, an unappealing dick and he can't kiss. THIS MF WISH he got head from me lmao. ANYWAYS, a lot of people believed it and I think its odd that my ex believed it considering i would never suck his dick and actually bit his dick when he tried to force it in my mouth

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

What an asshole smh What do people have from talking shit like that. Smh! But I think if you talk to Apple and explain her and like call him out on his stupid lie.. it will be okay.

And well I don't know if that counts but once we were in a club with friends and a guy approached me and I lied about having a boyfriend and he started arguing and in that moment a male from our group pasted by and I grabbed him and said "baby where are you going without me" and he immediately understood and replied correctly and got me out of that situation and even while walking out took my hand and acted as if 🙏🏼

sawno · Accepted Answer

Never lied about it, but when people get to nosey in my private life I can give an evasive answer. For example when in the past coworkers tried to find out more about my sex life i'd respond with a true "I am not lacking any". Which at that time was very true since I was perfectly able to satisfy myself, but I was also not having any sex. It stopped them from probing further, didn't start any unneccessry drama and they learnt nothing about me.

As for the guy, probably to boost his status.

Avcfhcic · Accepted Answer

Pretty sad but one Valentine's day I pretended to be with a girl that my friends didn't know, when I was just alone but didn't want to be seen as alone lol. Really sad looking back on it

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Yeah, guys I only said hi to would claim I bought them chocolate and gifts, guys I never talked to more than 3 minutes said I was casual sex, guys I never pursued would claim I led them on and pretended to like them. Guys I was just saying hi and bye to would think I was hitting on them.

catiecatie · Answer

I lied to protect his identity. There was a rumor going around that I went to a football game with the guy I like. I just ended up agreeing which it wasn’t true yes we were at the same game but not together. He was with a friend and I was with my sister. I just agreed with the guys so they would stop bothering me and they didn’t think I was going to agree. I just flat out said that the date was great.

Alessa13 · Answer

I had a guy once telling all his friends we had sex once, and yet we never even dated or even talked.

I myself have said I was in a relationship to try and stop guys from hitting on me, that I was not interested in.

It did not work as they would say, that is okay we can keep it secret.

weysally · Answer

there are more liers out there than people think, there are a lot who say that they have had sex with other, both men or wmen, and there are those that say oh I couldn't do that, but have done so more than some that confess to having sexwith others, I confess, I like sex

Msputiton · Answer

Wow, that's messed up.

Naw. I never did have this happen to me.

People saw me as just that girl who didn't care about dating because all i cared about was basketball. In hs it was an obsession.

So even if someone tried it, nobody would've believed them, which is probably why nobody even attempted.

MementoMori777 · Answer

No I accepted that I'm probably gonna be single for a minute and lying about it just gives people the opportunity to clown you, there's nothing wrong with being single

WellGreetingsISay · Answer

Yeah, when I was single and a few girls kept coming on to me every time I went to the same bar. I told them I had a girlfriend and after a few times they stopped trying.

Dinklex3 · Answer

I've lied that i wasn't with someone when I was, but never the other way around. That's creepy and gross.

spartan55 · Answer

Why would I do that? Like it wouldn't come out right? Then I would be known as a liar and get no respect from my peers.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope... I've only had four girlfriends before, all committed and exclusive and everyone knew about it as well

KittyKat90210 · Answer

Yikes. I've never lied about being with someone.

exitseven · Answer

I hardly ever discussed my dating life with anyone.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

No, this never happened to me, but you never know

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

I’m sure when I was little. Other more recent times, I often call one ‘my love,’ although we had no relationship.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Have being lied about like you are pretty messed up I petty them nothing Better to do with there time

AimeeKyle · Answer

No. I haven’t told people when we weren’t ready to let everyone know though.

Jennz6 · Answer

No I don’t care about if you know who I have been with

driven159 · Answer

I have lied and said I was married. So I would not get hit on at work

dinojames22 · Answer

Have I lied. No. Has a girl lied to me about this ... yes

Gibbons44 · Answer

Biblically I never was

LemiaOfThunder · Answer

I've been tricked into thinking i was in one

Vikkrram · Answer

Nope never

jimmy2 · Answer

I would have but she caught me

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

Chad345 · Answer

Yuck.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Never.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Never.

Debbie14217 · Answer

sure have

Anonymous · Answer

Never.

eagle1951 · Answer

oh heck yes

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