Boyfriend threaten to break up with me now I’m scared to do anything?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has been really down lately about something and I don’t know what it is. I did something yesterday that pissed him off that I unintentionally did. I don’t want to give to much info. Today he told me right at the moment what I did was disrespectful and that at the moment he was thinking about dumping me at that moment. Now I’m really scared to do anything and feel like I’m going to be walking on eggshells and don’t know how to make it up to him. i apologized but don’t think it’s enough.

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Sorry about all those at the moments lol

[jennifer_bloom]

If a guy is not interested and you are a good partner, then it’s time to cut your losses and let them go, not because your interest in him is unhealthy, but because their are nicer guys out there that will treat you with more attention and interest. A guy who is well suited and compatible with you will not require pleading or begging and I believe all good women have good men that will find them compatible if they decide to date.

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Without having all the info, all I can say is give him some space and accept whatever comes. You gave your apology, now it’s on him to decide whether to forgive or not. If he does break up with you, accept his decision graciously and use this experience as a life lesson. And if he wants to continue with the relationship, thank him and take the time to focus on making the relationship stronger and better for the future.

[OlderAndWiser]

He has manipulated you, and you have allowed him to manipulate you. This does not get better with the passage of time.

[BarryLiverstone]

Relationships take work and communication. You apologized, did he accept?

[Asker]

Yes.

[BarryLiverstone]

Then don’t be scared. You walking on eggshells can only hurt your connection. If you messed up then learn. Is this your first fight?

[Danielle93]

If you feel like you have to apologize and beg a man not to dump you, along with walking on eggshells then you're already getting manipulated. Next he threatens to dump you say "ok bye". Breaking up isn't the end of the world, esp if the relationship has gone bad enough to involve ultimatums.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Let him dumb you. Learn if someone doesn't desire you in their life then let them go.

You don't need them.

[MadAndBankrupt]

Now thats what I call how to dominate your girl

[Gent207-2]

Dump him

[spartan55]

What did you do?