What if you’re fk buddy told you they love you?

[Anonymous]

It’s happened twice. We’ve been casually hooking up for exactly three years on March 1st. about a month ago, we were just conversing through text and he said you know I love you girl. I sent him my Memoji with heart hands back. on Valentine’s Day he sent me to heart memes and said happy Valentine’s Day. Just now, he text and ask what am I doing? I told him about to go to sleep. I have to be at work early. His response was “ Sounds about right. Love you pretty good night” and I text him back and said I love you too and good night. We have known each other for like a long time like 15 years but we never hung out and just randomly started hooking up and kept doing it but we never go on dates we only have sex that’s it so this is kind of shocking and weird to me. But we have really gotten to know each other and I do love him as a good friend, but I feel like he’s a player and will not be in a relationship with him. to be honest I’ve been into long-term relationships that didn’t end well , and I’m not interested in that ever again.

[OlderAndWiser]

Maintaining that attitude is your privilege, but have you told him?

[Asker]

In the very beginning three years ago, when we first started talking, I told him I wasn’t interested in no relationship at all We haven’t talked about it since

[OlderAndWiser]

It's time to have a talk.

[electromagnetic]

Maybe y’all need to sit and talk this one through.
By the founds of it, y’all’s sex life is amazing and you want no extras. Let him know so y’all can stay on the same page.

[Pterodon]

If one told me that I’d say great now bend over

[Asker]

My first thought was yeah yeah that’s not why I came here 🤣

[ashish804]

they wanna not loose u so that he could bang u for rest of his life. thats y he is telling u these

[Brando10222]

Be honest with him. He thinks you like him more than friends

[A_Nihilist]

I'd cut them off. If I consider someone a fuck buddy. Then they'd be aware that is all they will ever be to me.