There is no need for phone search secrecy in my household as our passwords are known and phone is accessible at anytime. We reside in an insecurity free zone. There is enough of this negative insecurity causing energy preceding from the outside world 🌎 into our Coupled 🌍. We see no need to contribute to our personal and internal insecurity when the remedy is remarkably simple. Live as if there is nothing to hide and in a manner so that one hope she looks… In other words, love wholeheartedly and without fear or preservation.
What's the fucking point of coming clean? If you felt the need to do that shit to begin with you either suspect something or it's your own guilty fucking conscious about yourself that made you try to look through their phone to begin with.
Cheaters or people that are seriously considering cheating are the ones that want to snoop the most without prior provocation.
So I'm just talking to you right now, why would you secretly go through your partner's phone? 1) You suspect them of shit, 2) You're doing shit and trying to find reasons to justify your actions, or 3) you're a fucking retard that wants to play their online mobile game and beat levels for them because your autism levels are far superior to theirs and you just want to see them happy.
I done it on multiple occasions used his sleeping face to unlock it until he changed it to a finger lock instead so I eventually figured out the code after trying multiple codes for a couple days... There was never anything on it even though he did talk to some lady from work, it was a little flirty and I found out he was giving her rides to work... it didn't bother me cuz if he was cheating she was old as fuck and I honestly didn't give a fuck as long as it ain't someone hotter than me 🤣😂
I wouldn’t go through it. I don’t have a reason to. Especially considering we share the same iCloud account.
But let’s pretend I did. I’d probably fess up. I’d say, “I went through your phone cause you’ve been suspicious (because I don’t know any other reason to go through his phone) but I think I saw but I needed to see. I’m sorry for the misunderstanding.”
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u I've never done that and I doubt I ever would. Not an issue for me.
I would never go through their phone... that is disrespectful.
Yeah. We are open with our communications and phones. But while dating, I did and we talked about the reasons … so we worked on our issues. What he can do to secure our relationship, what I can do to help him move on from the past so we can build on our trust. It worked out…I heard/read most ended up breaking up.
Im not the type to ask to go through someones phone cause i wouldn't give them the password to go through mine. But in this scenario, if i did it, hell no i wouldn't tell them. Why bring on an argument... i like to be successfully sneaky. Guilt eats at me with some things but that wouldn't be one of em
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I'd shoot myself for having gone through it in the first place. Never, ever, ever, ever do that. Or snoop through anything.
My ex use to do that I came back on Fridays put my phone on the side table of the bed get up in the morning and it would be on my email that’s not just once a lot of times …..
But she never said a thing about it …
Oh well
I would tell them because I am a guilt-ridden person.
Its really not something I do
But if some how got to the point of doing it I will tell them, and come clean as soon as possible
Trust is a big thing for me, and its why il not be looking into there phone to start with really
I would never do that. If I needed to or felt like I needed to I would just ghost or break up with that person
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There’s no chance on god’s green earth that i would look into my partner’s phone without their knowledge, consent and supervision. The moment you do, you might as well end everything. Trust is gone. Without trust, everything is doomed anyway.
I wouldn't have checked. To be honest, I would have ended the relationship if I were that suspicious.
If I distrusted her to the point where I'd even consider going through her phone, I would just end the relationship.
First of all why should I even secretly want to go through his phone? If there's mutual trust he's gonna show me himself if I get suspicious.
If I did that I would certainly not snitch on myself.
If I did something that shady, I'd tell them and I'd also break-up cause they deserve someone better who can trust them. I wouldn't be worthy of my partner.
I don't lie to my wife, ever.. So if I felt the need to look through her phone I'd tell her.
8 years of marriage, I have never not once felt the need.
I wouldn't have to worry about explaining as I would never have gone through their phone in the first place.
I used to go through my girlfriend's phone. Until one day I decided I'd rather be happy. Blissfully ignorant
This wouldn't happen because I wouldn't go through her phone. If I trust her that little, if she's given me reason to trust her that little I'm just going to end it.
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