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Things ended because I was an idiot and had little patience. It was logistics that ended it, but honestly if we stayed together maybe she would've changed her mind about her job-path or it would've worked out somehow. And I know she truly would of done anything for me if she was with me. I just realised I can't remember how we met that hurts but oh well. I know the rest. It was online a LDR she admitted to liking me after a while so then we got together. We of course talked about everything but eventually after two months or so it became quickly boring to me. And we would say love you to each other but that's it and then it started to feel like I was required to respond to her. Etc etc. Eventually I just said this ain't fair on her because she shouldn't be with someone who feels needed to reply it should be he wants to reply.
She tried to tell me that's okay we can work it out but she had to know somewhere it wasn't. So it ended thanks to my dumbass. We said remain friends but naturally she lost interest in that, one day she replied months later telling me she was sorry like any of this was her fault silly. I explained to her it wasn't at all. Then about year later I sent message with some soppy shit. She told me that she found someone who makes her happy which of course I am highly envious of but was happy for her because that's what love is. If she's happy that brings me comfort.
And that's about the end of it really. She told me she was very busy and ya know more excuses really so she hasn't really responded back after me telling her I was happy and stuff for her.
I think about her all the time. Same with another girl I love. Then my other ex's only sometimes. The past is however something I learn from not move on from. And easier? Hell no. Only worse I would say but eh what I'm gonna do cry in a corner? I just hope when I find the 3rd girl I love she's the one who sticks.
If it wasn't for LDR I would of been married a long time ago lol though would never of met my 2nd love so that's interesting. But that also didn't work due to similar reasons.
I was going through a really shitty time in my life and she was a very positive person. I was mired in the limitations of my life and I guess after a while i was probably not a lot of fun to be around
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Things ended because I was an idiot and had little patience. It was logistics that ended it, but honestly if we stayed together maybe she would've changed her mind about her job-path or it would've worked out somehow. And I know she truly would of done anything for me if she was with me.
I just realised I can't remember how we met that hurts but oh well. I know the rest. It was online a LDR she admitted to liking me after a while so then we got together.
We of course talked about everything but eventually after two months or so it became quickly boring to me. And we would say love you to each other but that's it and then it started to feel like I was required to respond to her. Etc etc.
Eventually I just said this ain't fair on her because she shouldn't be with someone who feels needed to reply it should be he wants to reply.
She tried to tell me that's okay we can work it out but she had to know somewhere it wasn't. So it ended thanks to my dumbass. We said remain friends but naturally she lost interest in that, one day she replied months later telling me she was sorry like any of this was her fault silly. I explained to her it wasn't at all. Then about year later I sent message with some soppy shit.
She told me that she found someone who makes her happy which of course I am highly envious of but was happy for her because that's what love is. If she's happy that brings me comfort.
And that's about the end of it really. She told me she was very busy and ya know more excuses really so she hasn't really responded back after me telling her I was happy and stuff for her.
I think about her all the time. Same with another girl I love. Then my other ex's only sometimes. The past is however something I learn from not move on from. And easier? Hell no. Only worse I would say but eh what I'm gonna do cry in a corner?
I just hope when I find the 3rd girl I love she's the one who sticks.
If it wasn't for LDR I would of been married a long time ago lol though would never of met my 2nd love so that's interesting. But that also didn't work due to similar reasons.
I was going through a really shitty time in my life and she was a very positive person. I was mired in the limitations of my life and I guess after a while i was probably not a lot of fun to be around