You’re not wrong. I just through the same thing. My partner of 5 years just ghosted me a few weeks back. We’ve been on and off for a year now so my feelings were slowly fading anyway. I tried to reach out to her and she would ignore my calls and texts but would still snap me daily to keep out streak alive. It was basically a slap to the face. So eventually I just blocked her in social and haven’t reached out since. I don’t feel bad at all she decided to complete disrespect me by ignoring me. Anyone who can’t come out and just say they want to end things is a coward and clearly doesn’t value you or your time. So move on friend. I am. It’s hard I understand after all the years but we need to be valued just as much
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It’s fine. I think she wanted you to do this, hence no reply.
Trade up and get a hotter and nicer girl than her.
Whatever you do don’t feel bad. You did what you should have, dropping her. You reached out to her many times and she basically ignores you.
I think I understand you. It’s okay. You don’t have to be perfect at everything, you can’t perfect a breakup. You had your own reasons and as I see you weren’t wrong. If you felt it many times, that she doesn’t give you love, then don’t even question it anymore. Own your senses. You’re right, love has to be felt! Someone once said, if someone's actions and words don't match, believe in their actions, not the words. It doesn’t have to be a sad story. You already gave this relationship your 4 years. It was mutual. You don’t have to feel that you’re the one who ended it. It’s always mutual. She brought you to this point too. Silence is like swearing. She sure can’t blame it all on you.
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You shouldn’t feel bad. By the sounds of it, she wasn’t invested in the relationship, you were the one carrying it. You were the one making all the effort. She was likely trying to get you to break up with her, and she might’ve been cheating and paying all of her attention on someone else.
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yeah man... rediscovering all those things you once liked can be fun. Do not forget to grieve and it may be different 6 months out but who knows. Good luck with your new life !!
If you do not feel bad after breaking it off with your girlfriend then you subconsciously know it was the right thing to do, reading your post it is obvious that she had found someone else and did not have the guts to end it with you, If I were you I'd change my phone number and block her on any social media you are on.
Live your life to the best, and if she tries to get back with you just grey rock her, If you do not know what it is see this site; https://www.healthline.com/health/grey-rock .
you broke off the relationship for whatever reason.
If you still had feelings for her you might still be together.
since you lost the feelings for her you were ready to move on and that is what you did.
usually the one that initiates the break up has less remores that the one getting dumped.
you moved on, it is a very common thing to do.No, it's what I'd prefer honestly, feeling that way. It's a chapter in our lives that's over. And it's nice if you can move on quickly and start the new chapter. It's not easy for most of us, so hats off to you :)
It sort of sounds like my relationship when I was in college. I called her one night and broke up with her. I really did not feel bad either. i was really ready to move on and it sounds like you are too.
if things were as you say they were, then you shouldn't feel bad. In my younger years I can recall breaking up with a woman and feeling happy about it. If you tried to talk, and she didn't respond, keep it moving and find someone else.
Call me crazy, but breaking up over text then blocking is fucked
Not at all. She practically proved that she didn't give a fuck.
wow you really are blind.. she's cheating on you
Were you an English major in college?
You’re fine, you did the right thing.
Absolutely fine
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