I (28F) met this guy (32) when he was finishing law school. He had a 2 year plan figured out where he’d move to another country for a year and travel and he didn’t want to stay where we lived at all. So we met, and he told me it couldn’t be serious bc he’s moving away. He moved to this country for 5 days before he came back home and said it didn’t feel right.
We continued to see each other but he was under a lot of stress because he couldn’t find work. He was dirt poor, in loads of debt and nobody was hiring him. He was depressed, he didn’t feel good about himself. He broke things off with me a year ago. We didn’t see each other for a year.
Now, he’s wanting to try again with me. He said he found a job here in his state. We live 40 minutes away, neighboring states. He just took the bar exam in my state to be able to practice law in my state and is planning to move to my town. He said he needed time to establish himself and at the time couldn’t handle a relationship and now he feels in a better place. Do I give him another chance?
