The flaws and reasons why I wanna break up: I feel inadequate to him and that I'll never succeed as much as him. Sometimes he does try to do something with it, other times it just seems like he doesn't care, and even other times he implies that I really do have it worse (for example by describing a person who has the same life as me and adding things like "I would not want to live like that"). He does later assure me that he doesn't mean me in particular but I don't know. Other than that, he also constantly finds details he gets mad about, even if it is only small things like me choosing to invite him to the movies instead of walks etc. That way, we argue a lot. I am aware I probably also do dumb stuff for sure.
At the same time though, I really doubt I will find someone else like him. Besides the bad stuff, he acted as my dream partner and before the relationship he was one of my best friends for several good years. No clue what to do
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Overthink and insecurity yourself right out of a good thing, will ya. Go find Perfection and see how that turns out…
The issue here is there is multiple issues including tou being insecure which he can't fix so that's somthing u need to work on including u guys equally arguing over stupid small things which would leave me to believe there are more underlying issues you might have a great bond but your relationship is clearly lacking in communication does he know your at the stage of preparing to walk
You need to get over your own issues