My boyfriend is living with me for 4 months, bu he doesn't help me financially. How can I ask him to pay for rent? (Page 4)

[Crmolon]

Absolutely, when living together everything is shared. Including tasks/chores and costs

[FilmGuy93]

Why wouln't you just say those exact words? Y'all are in an intimate relationship.

[LovingJo]

Call his ass out, or ask him to leave.. What are you doing?

[nudetru]

By forwarding this post to him incogneto.. or let him know im moving into im willing to go easily a 100 bucks more than he's paying

[AnusNdaPainus]

My girlfriend usually ask for money while I’m inside of her it’s very hard to say no when all the blood is flowing somewhere else

[Den1971]

Make him pay from now forward. Actually get rid of him. That's bullshit not paying rent. Actually that's your fault. You allowed it

[NostalgiaSenpi]

This should have been done before he moved in. Make a discussion, now. Tell him what you're going through and ask him to contribute.

[TallAnon]

At your age, just start a general chat about responsibilities and finances. Then mention cost of living along the way.

[OddBeMe]

He would have immediately if he were worth anything to you. He’s not, so dump him. He’s a tick living off your money.

[Stevefiveo]

Umm, just tell him like you did here. Dude, you need to be a man and pay rent or GTFO.

[msc545]

Simple - you say "I need you to pay half the rent, please".

[Samhanks]

Ask him indirectly : Are you in a position to share our house rent? Most probably he will agree to pay his share !

[Bklynbadboy12]

Be honest with him tell him he either has to contribute to the household bills or he has to find someplace else to live

[Bklynbadboy12]

Leave

[helbigarthur]

Let them know relationships are equal and everyone should pay there fair share

[Alex8736]

it's time to send him packing before things get worse off for you.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

It’s not that hard just give him a friendly personal eviction notice.

[JesseP1nk]

"If you elect a clown, don't be surprised if you get a circus"

Dump him

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Tell him he needs to help with expenses if not then he has to leave.

[Shamalien]

The fact that he hasn’t offered is a really bad sign tbh…

[Lunatic1]

If they live there, they should absolutely pay rent