Is it really that difficult to not cheat? Why do you think so many people find it difficult? (Page 2)
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Of course not, but it's not the black and white issue you pretend. Plenty of men thought they were marrying a partner with a comparable sex drive, while she thought "Once I'm married, I can wean him off sex, and I'll never have to give a blow job ever again."
Life's complicated.
people get bored in the relationship, or a deadend relationship and they feel not good enough so they find someone else to heal the wounds of not moving forward with their current partner and they don't want to deal with the confrontation of ending it because they're scared they'll end up alone?
If a girl tells me "no" then yes because I'll feel crazy horny and just fuck someone else.
Or if I was dating a girl that wasn't that great and a better one came along I'd jump ship. But I generally don't date girls that aren't that good.
Remaining slave to sin Willa cost you the win. Those irrelevant bacterium just don’t even bother to look under their chins, they think seeing the truth is like getting stuck in a Cotton Gin. It’s quite the opposite actually, for if thee do not see and seek they shall loose further beyond their limbs. They’ll be looking like soup with shark fins.
Cheaters cheat because they want to, and they can't say no when an offer of sex is on the table.
Cheating is so common because loyalty costs so much and not everyone can pay for it, so because we seen so many cheating cases that people are afraid and have trust issues.
Any sort of cheating stems from problems within the relationship. Those problems are often rooted in some kind of communication failure brought on by complacency and indifference.
I have no inclination to cheat so for me it is easy not to do so.
It's probably because people get in a habit of dating a bunch of people. And then when they finally do get into an exclusive relationship, they can't shake that pattern.
Well I have a hyperactive libido
and I beat off a lot like a lot
my girlfriend doesn’t like it but she rather me do that than cheat
I think cheating depends on the persons morals
Because they want to hurt the person. They don't give a shit about other person's feelings. Usually narcissists are know for being cheaters and liars.
It's easy for me because i simply don't wanna cheat. I don't do what i don't wang to happen to me
@filmguy93 and @BullShark nailed it. It all boils down to the V word and it isn't vagina.
I’ve never cheated, never would, so it’s easy for me to remain faithful.
People who are sincere in commitment, cheating is difficult for them otherwise, otherwise cheating is not difficult at all
I think it’s related to libido and a mismatched sex drive.
I don't get it either. Its hard enough getting a partner in the first place.
Monogamy is a social construct. It's really not that old and people have a difficult time adapting to it. They probably never will as we're not wired this way
It's ok to be poly. It's not ok to cheat.
@CubsterShura You're correct and that's what most people struggle with
For women yes it is difficult. Women can never go against the urge of banging billions of men. They want it all and are never happy.
It's so easy not to. If it's gone that far, communicate with your partner about your needs or end it.