How do we learn to trust again after being hurt in past relationships, and is it worth the risk?

[Vázquez613]

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Stop caring. Seriously. I know it's easier said than done, but if you can convince yourself that it's ok to be cheated on or broken up with again, you'll be much much happier in the long run, and actually be able to get into a relationship again.
The relationships you have will be much healthier too, because you won't have that toxic jealousy and suspicion all the time.

Just tell yourself, "Yup, she probably gon' cheat!" or "She's gonna dump me in a year, tops."
It's amazing how much your outlook will change and how much happier you'll be in whatever relationship you're in. The best part is, she'll probably even be a lot less likely to cheat on you or dump you, because you'll be a much happier person, and in turn, she'll be happier.

Why don't girls cheat on Chads? Because they don't give a shit, and that energy is addicting to women. It's all mind over matter

[megabamse]

Everything is a risk and we simply can't enjoy life without it. Hurt is all in our head, and how long we stay hurt is all up to us. We simply move one with the thought "good riddance, at least we got that out of the way" and move on to the next. It don't matter if we get hurt or offended, we just move on. Don't take life that seriously and never take things personal.

[t_time]

I haven't hurt and cheered on so many times. More times than I can count on my fingers and Toes. I was out of breaking point where I wasn't going to date anyone and I just gave up. But out of the blue just when I was about to delete tinder. I found which is now my fiance. You just have to believe everything happens for a reason. Being hurt so badly. This makes you realize what you want and what you don't want. It also nine times out of ten makes you a better person. At least for me it did. I would never want to put anybody through what People have put me through. And it really makes you appreciate a really good relationship when you have one

[t_time]

I MEANT I Have been hurt and cheated on**********

[DizzyDesii]

Its not hard for me. I start over with everyone at 99%. No one will ever have my full trust except God. Even i dont trust myself 100%. But yea everyone starts at 99% and you get so many chances. Its drops by 33% every strike. So 99%, 66%, 33%... and then no more chances

[TooHot2Care]

Wait, you guys are trusting people…?

I just stopped giving a fuck and approach girls in a “she a ho until proven innocent.”

Yeah it’s a little evil, but it’s also more fun.

Do I have remorse for my actions? Nope.

would I do it again? Lmfao, yup.

[Anonymous]

Why the hell would you trust anyone? That's foolish. The only people who demand that you trust them are the people trying to screw you over.

[Sour-rose]

Oh, that's the thing: You don't. :D Once the trust is broken, just forgiving all and being like everything is okey dokey ain't gonna be like that. So ya, forget botherin' and keep movin' on.

[Nikki1989]

It is not hard at all. You just get on with life. I have been hurt many times, but you just deal with it.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Look, shit happens. Most people are not going to be part of your life for very long. It takes time. Just get back on the bike and start again. You may fail again, no big deal. Keep going.

[Anonymous]

By not repeating whatever landed us in the world of hurt in the first place. You can trust, but that trust has to be earned. And if your partner is unable to understand that keep moving on till you find a partner that does.

[FilmGuy93]

It's absolutely worth the risk. All you can do is take your relationships one day at a time.

[LiamJHayden]

Recognize that each person is an individual.

[nawtee_me]

It is a choice. It is not something you need to learn since you already know how to trust. Just choose to do so.

[noohair]

The ego of a man is as fragile as an egg, once broken; it does not go back together well.

[Kat1234561]

By taking things slow and slowy getting to know them

[Wise4myage]

By taking things really slow and being cautious.

[In_Trance]

"Worth" depends on your sense of value