Is it possible that, although we live a long distance relationship, my boyfriend doesn't' miss me? We haven't seen each other for weeks. How long do you think it takes for my partner to miss me in a long distance relationship?
Some people wear their heart on their sleeves. Some people do not. It depends on how expressive he is with his feelings. It could be that he misses you but just doesn’t talk about it or show it. Some men are just more stoic than others.
If he’s showing you love and care in other ways, I wouldn’t worry about it too much.
But, you can always talk about it with him, have a heart-to-heart talk, and voice your concerns. A good boyfriend will give you the reassurance you need and put you at ease and help you feel secure.
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Well if he values you in any kind of way he should truly miss you. If those words are not coming out of his mouth and it hurts you let him know that. You deserve better if he’s stuck long distance meanwhile he doesn’t tell you that he misses you. That doesn’t sound like any kind of relationship at all.
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If he loves you he'll miss you (and still love you) even after 10 years in long distance. That's how I see that.
Maybe it's just your perception. I have no idea how can you know if he misses you or not.
You'll find out when you'll meet him again, I guess. Send him some gift maybeI’m sure he misses you, just sometimes people can still be happy without you there. Just knowing you’re in his corner so to say can mean a lot. But sometimes men are not great at long distance communication. Maybe talk to him and tell him a few things you want while you guys are so far apart. Daily texts/calls, pictures, check-ins…whatever
He is not really that invested in the relationship. This probably will not change.
I don't understand why you're still there if you think this is how it is
Why do you think that he doesn't miss you?
An ldr... Is not a relationship..
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