Weed smoking boyfriend, can I trust him?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is an avid weed smoker. I smoke once in a while but I’m not a fan. Last week, we were smoking/drinking in the backyard and I mentioned to him that I found out my older sister smokes with my brother in law (both in their 40’s). He laughed and said he said a feeling and that she has a stoner’s face.
Later that night after drinking/smoking , we went into bathroom to take a shower together…He was in shower and as I’m taking off my clothes, out of nowhere my boyfriend says, “So when is your sister going to smoke with us?”
I was caught off guard , I don't know what to think of it. What does it mean that he said that and while we were naked? Should I be concerned?

[virtue2332]

He was just high and thought it was funny or was trying to mess with you. If he was really interested in your sister he would more than likely not say something to you but would be trying to get her alone to smoke with so he could flirt and test the waters a bit.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

It doesn't mean he's untrustworthy necessarily, but I won't pretend that grown ass adults who still think it's cool to smoke weed and fry their brain with substances to relax are mature by any stretch

[Daniela1982]

What does being naked have to do with any conversation that takes place when in such a situation?

[SeriouslyFunny00]

You have instinct. You know the answer already.

[smilelots]

Im going to say not all people that smoke can or can't be trusted that is up to you.. In the end you will find out how honest and trustworthy someone its to you and to others..

[Asker]

That is true

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'd be more concerned about the weed tbh. That shit is poison.

[Asker]

Yeah he said he’s going to reduce his smoking, our problems come when he says and does weird things when he smokes

[TheSpaceGnome]

It blocks neurons related to memory and problem solving. So while high he won't make sense most of the time.

[Shamalien]

Poison is a strong word. What’s alcohol to you if weed is poison?

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Shamalien Alcohol is also poison, though alcohol is easier to reverse the damage of because lung tar and neuron damage is harder to fix than a sterile gut or a fatty liver.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Though alcohol can also cause neuron damage, but thats only if you get drunk.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Smart people stay sober, no drugs at all ever period.

[TheSpaceGnome]

And yes, I mean recreational drugs.

[Shamalien]

Alcohol is a way harder drug than weed and it’s effects are virtually impossible to reverse. Also, it can literally kill you. Hell, even the withdrawal can kill you. You speak from a place of extreme ignorance. Neuron damage? From weed? Source please!

Also lung tar is not hard to reverse, it’s called going on a run, you hack it all out. Ciggs are a different story because the damage from those breaches the mucus membrane of the lung and actually scars the organ itself

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Shamalien Thats incorrect on the all accounts except the part where alcohol can kill you.

Weed is more dangerous than alcohol. Mild alcohol use is fixed with probiotics and has no long term mental impacts, removing lung tar is a lot more difficult and time consuming than just going for a run, and no, any form if smoking causes lung damage the way ciggs do.

Weed blocks synapse points between neurons,

[TheSpaceGnome]

Weed is shown to cause permanent damage to the brain with longterm use, as does alcohol.

[TheSpaceGnome]

But short term, weed is more potent at fucking up neurons, alcohol doses have to be much higher to cause the same level of impairment.

[TheSpaceGnome]

In either case, both are poison. Arguing about which poison is best, is like asking how you want to get the shit beat out of you, bat or club? I'll pass on both thanks.

[Shamalien]

Let me guess, you drink alcohol but don’t udr weed? And no, weed and ciggs do not cause equal amounts of lung damage. Link me to a study where weed blocks synapse points between neurons cause the best paid developer at my company has been smoking since his teens and I know several highly intelligent people who are the same way

[Shamalien]

@thespacegnome you severely underestimate the dangers of alcohol. Society wide alcohol is a way bigger problem than weed. It causes PERMANENT brain damage and it’s not even a topic of debate. Alcohol reduces the amount of oxygen to the brain and literally kills braincells. The damage cannot be undone

[Shamalien]

@thespacegnome weed in no way meets the criteria of “poison” sorry but you’re wrong. It is the least harmful of all drugs including prescription drugs. Smoking it causes harm but far less than ciggs. Weed can change the way we think which can change the structure of our brain and it makes it way too enjoyable to be lazy, but it no poison. It is a psychedelic and used properly will expand ones’ mind

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Shamalien I'm actually not wrong, also no it is not the least harmful drug, caffiene and tylenol for example are far safer. The less harm involved with weed vs cigs is a myth, they just harm in different ways. Also anything that makes it enjoyable to be lazy is objectively poison, not being lazy is a sign of a more active brain, a healthy brain enjoys when it is hyperactive, much like a young child's brain is, so you are just adding to my point.

Weed inhibits pain, memory, problem solving, motor skills, and satiation. it also halts brain activity to such a degree, that people use it to stop seizures, this makes it a mild neurotoxic poison.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Maybe just wanna smoke weed together? Weed smoking seems way more miserable alone than with company.

[Asker]

Then why did he not mention my brother in law too?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Maybe she is more pleasant on the eyes and friendly? Weed isn't so fun if you got a one-upper type who isn't pleasant on the eyes.

[Asker]

That’s my sister… I think it’s weird to say that

[In_Trance]

Bruh...

[HighValue]

Never trust people that do drugs.

[Asker]

Why though

[HighValue]

They will lie to you, steal from you, possibly harm you and others. I have seen it plenty of times and they all claim they wouldn't, just like people that start out smoking weed claim they wouldn't do any harder drugs and they eventually do. Ask anyone you meet that does meth, heroin, cocaine, etc. And they will likely all say they started out with marijuana.

[TrillXHippy]

So when is your sister going to smoke with you guys? Not A Big Deal

[Asker]

Smoking reduces inhibitions

[JesseP1nk]

You ask if someone with an addiction is reliable?

[melnc]

What a great happy family

[Anonymous]

Yeah, smoker love other smokers
I don't smoke alone but will with others

[boggboss]

I think your reading into the situation

[Asker]

Then why didn’t he mention my brother in law?

[boggboss]

Because he dont like the brother-in-law but dint mind your sister

[boggboss]

Thats a raw guess tho as I don't know him or how he feels about the other two if something this small can make u think he is looking to cheat tho u guys have some deeper issues

[Asker]

We don’t see my brother in law often, so he doesn’t really know him. I have some trust issues but he’s done and said weird stuff while high. Makes me wonder if that’s how he really is

[msc545]

Concerned about what?

[Asker]

That he may be into my sister

[msc545]

why would you think that?

[Anonymous]

hope you rot in hell where you belong

[Opinion Owner]

do yourself a favor and chop your tits off and his dick off then set it on fire and while you're at it go kill yourself

[Asker]

You ok buddy?

[Asker]

I will ask again, you ok buddy?