My boyfriend is an avid weed smoker. I smoke once in a while but I’m not a fan. Last week, we were smoking/drinking in the backyard and I mentioned to him that I found out my older sister smokes with my brother in law (both in their 40’s). He laughed and said he said a feeling and that she has a stoner’s face.
Later that night after drinking/smoking , we went into bathroom to take a shower together…He was in shower and as I’m taking off my clothes, out of nowhere my boyfriend says, “So when is your sister going to smoke with us?”
I was caught off guard , I don't know what to think of it. What does it mean that he said that and while we were naked? Should I be concerned?
He was just high and thought it was funny or was trying to mess with you. If he was really interested in your sister he would more than likely not say something to you but would be trying to get her alone to smoke with so he could flirt and test the waters a bit.
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It doesn't mean he's untrustworthy necessarily, but I won't pretend that grown ass adults who still think it's cool to smoke weed and fry their brain with substances to relax are mature by any stretch
What does being naked have to do with any conversation that takes place when in such a situation?
You have instinct. You know the answer already.
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Im going to say not all people that smoke can or can't be trusted that is up to you.. In the end you will find out how honest and trustworthy someone its to you and to others..
I'd be more concerned about the weed tbh. That shit is poison.
Maybe just wanna smoke weed together? Weed smoking seems way more miserable alone than with company.
Bruh...
Never trust people that do drugs.
So when is your sister going to smoke with you guys? Not A Big Deal
You ask if someone with an addiction is reliable?
Yeah, smoker love other smokers
I don't smoke alone but will with othersWhat a great happy family
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I think your reading into the situation
Concerned about what?
hope you rot in hell where you belong
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