I want to be single but she wants us to be in relationship , I have many problems in my life?

[Anonymous]

Hello guys

So I met this girl accidentally in the supermarket she was kind girl anyway she was flirting with me im single 6 months +

Anyway we changed numbers and she contacted me we did talk for a while and then I kinda lost interest it's not because of her no but I have so many problems in my life my family and their insane problems and I feel I'm not ready for a relationship also my last relationship was with covert narcissist her manipulate was harmful and because of that I have short temper I avoid people I improved since the breaking up but I feel I must stay single for a while 6 months not enough

So should I tell her I'm not the one?

Or give it a try? But i know I'm not ready at all and I must stay single for more time.

Thoughts?

[kylee2437]

Reject her. She doesn’t deserve to be put through a less than desirable relationship and you should speak up about the fact that you feel like you can’t give her a fulfilling relationship. It gives her room to move on and it gives you room to stay single and work on yourself.

[Asker]

Thanks for your opinion
I really felt like we are good match but my life always up n down can't focus on relationship as it needa care attention time etc today's and life gets tougher at least for me.

[kylee2437]

@asker hey if it’s meant to be it will find its way back around, unfortunately keeping her around when you don’t have the capability to give her a great relationship is not going to work out in your favor and will drive a good girl away from you. Walk away now, and maybe she will come to terms that you just really weren’t ready and maybe things will come back together in the future.

[Iron_Man]

How do you know she’s not the complete opposite and she can help you out and cheer you up you’re not even giving her a chance

[Asker]

Well she's just not that type

[Nikki1989]

Stop wasting this girl's time. You are obviously not ready.

[slatyb]

So be single. No one else gets a vote.

[boobliker]

be what you want and be strong by telling her!

[anon1903]

Let her go. Reject her.