Is this cheating or am I overreacting?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of two years has a really petty horrible baby momma. She’s trying to put him in jail for whatever reason she can. She keeps their kids from him and won’t let him see them. They have a mutual connection with this female. Am I wrong for being upset and feel that it’s cheating that he created a fake “relationship” with this female to piss off his baby momma and hurt her. I know it’s fake but it still hurts me. They tag each other in posts that you would only tag your partner in, he says he loves her and calls her beautiful, calls her baby and all that stuff. They’ve taken a few pictures together sitting next to each other. Am I overreacting for not liking it and thinking it’s cheating even tho it’s a fake relationship just to piss off his baby momma?

[Summeroflove]

If he’s pretending to have another girlfriend? Yeah it is and you’re right to feel upset about this. Maybe you should express how you feel and maybe it’s time to end the relationship.


He finds a woman whose good to him and he pretends to be with someone he’s not? Even if there is nothing else going on. Yeah it’s cheating. Why doesn’t he just use you to tag you in stuff?

[DaveJord]

Yup, it sounds pretty emotionally immature of him... I mean if this how he acts toward his "baby" mamma... then seriously how do think he will treat you some day?

This sounds so childish... no wonder you posted anonymously! LOL

[BoopBoopBeep]

Why put up with all this drama if it IS real? And if he wanted to make her jealous why not use you? Which would still be drama. The lowest common denominator here is drama. Run don't walk away from this.

[Staximus]

How do you know it's a fake relationship? Find a guy who is not going to get you into a bunch of stupid drama

[LiamJHayden]

You know it's fake, know why it is done, but still think it might be cheating? Anyway, if you do not like it explain that to your boyfriend.

[DextroShade]

Sounds like he has you in his rotation, you should get out unless you want to be baby momma #2.

[msc545]

He is trying to manage a very difficult situation peacefully. Give the man a break here.

[boggboss]

Lol why would u even decide to be with such a fool

[HollyK21]

My exact thoughts! That is crazy.

[boggboss]

Some proper jerry springer style shit

[ThatOneDude69]

Not cheating unless they are having sex, could just be friends

[Anonymous]

Not cheating, but very stupid and immature.

[In_Trance]

Overreacting