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Am I being an a**hole?

My boyfriend suffers from anxiety, bipolar, and depression. All of which he is on medication for. He has a habit of letting his meds run out and not refilling them BEFORE they run out. When this happens, it affects his behavior, because this is medication that he needs to keep his illnesses in check. When he doesn’t take it, he goes down this mental spiral. I have tried helping him remember to refill his pills, but since im not physically living with him it’s hard to do. Recently, he did it again and because he went a whole week without his meds, he is spiraling and expects me to feel sorry for him, but I don’t because at the point he is choosing to ignore the responsibility of refilling his pills. First time it is a mistake but if it’s something that he continually does, it’s a choice. It’s hard for me to be empathetic because I feel like he deliberately chooses to not refill his meds even though he knows the consequences it will have on his behavior. We have had this conversation several times and I just don’t know what else to do to help him see the light. Am I an asshole for feeling this way?

Am I being an a**hole?
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