No, never buy things for a man. You teach him to be feminine. He will end up using you instead of protecting and providing for you. In the Bible it says a man will toll his labor to make a living. Just like the day don’t feed the bears… don’t feed a man either.
I don't see a problem with you being kind to the man you love. But you clearly are troubled about it. I think you should figure out why exactly this is bothering you.
If you want to buy it for him then do so, but don't make a song and dance about it, Phrase it like 'l noticed that you were having problems with your phone, and was wondering if this would help?'
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Sure--that would be very considerate of you and I'm sure he'd love that!
Although I'm sure he loves it even more that he's gone from living with religious whacko grandparents to being able to get freaky with you! ;)
I think it's waste if you buy new phone these day. I got mine at ebay. It's used but it's very clean used. I have Google pixel phone for $150. Battery is good too. Google pixel 5 5g or 4 5g. Both good.
If he really is helping you that much then I think you should.
At first i thought no because traditionally the girl should be paying that much for the guy. But here it sounds like he is more an employee than just a boyfriend. Lol
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No, never buy things for a man. You teach him to be feminine. He will end up using you instead of protecting and providing for you. In the Bible it says a man will toll his labor to make a living. Just like the day don’t feed the bears… don’t feed a man either.
It sounds like you and your boyfriend could really use a dedicated male pay pig:)
Why not? If he needs it and you got the money to afford it.
I don't see a problem with you being kind to the man you love. But you clearly are troubled about it. I think you should figure out why exactly this is bothering you.
If you want to buy it for him then do so, but don't make a song and dance about it, Phrase it like 'l noticed that you were having problems with your phone, and was wondering if this would help?'
Sure--that would be very considerate of you and I'm sure he'd love that!
Although I'm sure he loves it even more that he's gone from living with religious whacko grandparents to being able to get freaky with you! ;)
That's entirely up to you, honey! That's your call. I'm not going to interfere and tell you what to do.
Since this is for a business, it should be a deductible expense for the business. no problem.
i don't intend to push your decision in either direction other that to follow your heart but always be vigilant. Always.
I think it's waste if you buy new phone these day. I got mine at ebay. It's used but it's very clean used. I have Google pixel phone for $150. Battery is good too. Google pixel 5 5g or 4 5g. Both good.
If he really is helping you that much then I think you should.
At first i thought no because traditionally the girl should be paying that much for the guy. But here it sounds like he is more an employee than just a boyfriend. Lol
As far as I can see, yes. That’s so sweet of you to even think about doing :3
I wouldn’t. He needs to learn to do adult things like buy his own phone. He sounds like a child.
If it were the other way around most guys would pay for their girl to get a new phone.
@Girlaloooss What do your parents do for a living?
Why not but do it inform of gifting him to not him feel bad
If he's doing all the physical work for you to help you make money you can get him the phone.
Nah girl you’re doing wifey things while just being a girlfriend. Don’t do that. Also don’t buy him a PS5 unless you have a ring on your finger lol
If you two are really connected and love each other. Then it is okay to buy him a phone. Plus try to talk him into finding a job too.
If you feel that he has earned and deserves one. Then by all means. Buy it!