Will my boyfriend talk to me again?

[Alex_45]

Sunday night we went to a party and after the party he got drunk. We were talking and he got mad after some small thing I said. He has anger issues and especially drunk he can go mad. He started yelling in the whole street and sad bad things to me and that he didn't want to see me again, that he was breaking up with me. Before this fight he said how much he loved me, and we have this really strong connection and I know he loves me trully but when he has these anger moments he can say anything out of anger. There was this fight once when he broke up with me and after I left his house, in 15 min he called me again and apologized. But this time was different. He slept in another room and after I left his house in the morning he didn't spoke to me since. I called him a few times and texted him but he is ignoring me. Usually he cools down after a fight and apologizes, so I am heartbroken that he is still ignoring me. It isn't fair. I dont know what is going through his head so I am asking you this question. Yesterday he left the city to visit his family, I was supposed to go there tomorrow too. But he is silent. I talked with a friend of his about this because I am heartbroken and he says that he will probably talk to me again but he needs time and he might be doing this because he is stubborn. But Im worried he will never talk to me again. We loved each other so much, it hurts deeply.

[SnowedIn]

I want to offer a different perspective: while I know you love him, be glad hess silent and gone. Move on. He has left you at least twice based on what you wrote and I believe he has anger issues. Not sure if the drinking is a thing or not.

How soon before this escalates into abuse? (Although I'd argue that this silent thing is already abuse.)

You need a man who will treat you better.

[nana_90]

Ignore his ass and disappear focus on urself on ur career hobbies, enjoy yourself and dont show up anywhere u might come across trust me if he took long then u haven't wasted any time in misery, its a win win..
If however he come back u shouldn't forgive right away tell him i need space.. And see if he actually wants you.. No matter what promises he say its bullshit hold ur ground teach him a lesson.

[Alex_45]

do you think its possible he loves me and is ignoring me because he doesn't know how to handle the situation?

[nana_90]

Also dont talk or report to any of his friends that u r sad and u miss him in fact tell them that u r conent and happy satisfied with urself have inner peace all that, show him how strong and happy u r without him dont gossip or say mean things about him.. Stay cool.. A mere EX no grudges no shit.. Just someone u used to know.. NOTHING there u know.. Give this impression and he WILL regret it and make sure he learn his lesson...

Keep in mind u deserve a decent man who is caring a true gentleman knows what to say and cherish u not some maniac with anger issues who takes u for granted

[nana_90]

These steps that i just told u will put him in a test.. And u will get ur answer it is definitely hard but hold ur ground.

[Alex_45]

update: today he called me and asked how I was and apologized. guess the fact that I focused on myself worked

[Emelina]

Move on sweet girl, you deserve a good man that would treat you right and knows how to treat a woman. This relationship sounds toxic and verbally abusive, he can be good sometimes but doesn't know how to control his anger and he ends up taking it on you and thats not what a relationship eally wants a relationship to be succeed. Cheers

[Emelina]

Thanks for the MHG🙂

[Avicenna]

No one can say for sure and you know him best, but I would imagine that he would after he's cooled down

[Alex_45]

he did call me today

[Avicenna]

That's great. I hope it went well!

[thatshydork]

Depends on what you said. What seems like a little thing/little things to you could actually be a big deal to him.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Neither of you know what love is if you think that's it. That's an abusive relationship.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'm sure he'll talk to you. Nothing will get fixed with the silent treatment.

[Alex_45]

update: today he called me and asked how I was and apologized. i guess focusing on myself worked

[Ms_Facesitter]

:) see? He HAS to reach out after things calmed down. But try to not go to that place again where people go for the silent treatment, it isn't going to help much. If you both stay calm and learn to communicate with each other better, it won't go to that point ever again.

[WhitneySnow]

It really depends on what exactly he got so mad about

[KrakenAttackin]

How about you stop picking fights with him to get your drama fix.

[xcooldudue]

He is toxic. If you go behind him again I’ll come there and beat your ass!

[Jamie05rhs]

What was the thing you said that upset him?

[Anonymous]

he doesn't love you