Is a man without a car a loser?

Question

Car is man's charisma

mobiusforniner · Accepted Answer

Id agree... a car is like the modern equivalent to a horse. A man without one just seems naked. No sense of self worth or vision.

It doesn't have to be something showy or fancy. What matters is how he treats it. I drove the same car for 18 years but loved and cared for it.

BadApple69 · Accepted Answer

Yes. Not much more to be said. From m the time I first got my driver's license I have always had 2 vehicles a car and a truck. Transporting oneself from point A to point B isn't an option it's a necessity. Depending on others to transport you is the sign of a loser.

Apple1996 · Answer

It depends where he lives. If in a city no car is fine but in the country you really can't do much If you don't have a car so then it is kind of lame for a guy (and a girl) not to have a car

kylee2437 · Answer

Absolutely. Especially if he’s been “saving for years for one”

Pinay_ako · Answer

🤣 wow what a shallow world

PizzaDaddyo · Answer

No car at the moment! I bike everywhere I need to go, to and from work, to the grocery store, to the park/ gym, to mofos houses, to get beer sometimes the bar.

To answer the question: Believe it or not, I went this whole past winter, without one still had to go to work the store, the gym. No I am not a loser for not owning a car. I have built so much more mental strength grown, physically, learn to respect myself more without it as I don’t mind a challenge, and I put myself in the situation. Yes it is easy to feel down about not having a car and I sometimes wish I had one right now but I can wait. I have mad respect for anybody who does what I do and commutes with out cars. Owning a car does not even make you a man necessarily. Do you know what owning a car makes you? A car owner. Society will make you think that you need certain things you may not even need in the first place. Society has made me feel like a loser at times especially when I first lost my car. In many ways I grew a lot without my car. I understand the struggle walking and biking everywhere and Uber and if I have to. It definitely has its drawbacks not only in a car, but even having a car has drawbacks. With the car, you already lose by buying it and leaving the lot. I was never that much of a Car man anyway, and I think it is great and kind of manly to know about cars and how they work but, they are just boxes with wheels on it.

I’m 30 have had 4 different cars in the past

I’m a struggling DUI person that lost a fuck ton of money (10k +), took all the classes, had house arrest had probation license got suspended for a year, had to sell my car right when autumn hit. I was very aware that I had to bike us through this winter. At first my life flipped upside down and it sucked ass and it was so annoying day by day I power through it. I even got myself an E bike and Uber when I have to when the weather is extreme. I’ve gotten more prepared, mentally, and physically and I’m very used to biking, and I learned to love it. I’m good at it I’m a pro. I can go anywhere no handlebars. I go around the whole park. No handlebars. It made me have to push myself. Which I like. I don’t even use the E bike anymore because I’ve learned my legs are faster than ever and more efficient. I was fortunate enough that somebody I knew, was willing to give me an extremely nice mountain bike as I’ve kind of recently and at this point I had it for a couple months now and it’s awesome I’m out! I was using a cruiser bike for a long time and it was a struggle at first but after doing it every day for over six months I can go in a circle no hands! The bike also motivated me to bike more around so I wouldn’t be fatigued biking to work so I’d like to the park all the time sometimes bike to the gym but when I’m at the park I’d like around the whole park and do the activities they have like push-ups, sit ups, body weight stuff. E bike or not I wish more people got more into biking. E bikes and E scooters are the new wave right now and I think it’s a great time to get back on the bike!

ohsheeT · Answer

No a man's car is the way he gets from point A to B .. but before you call him a loser stop and think. He just might be a very smart man. When is practical and thinking ahead think about it no car payment no insurance and no gas payment every month you know how much money that would save knowing where we're headed with emissions or global warming maybe he said I'm strong enough to get around the way I need to get around to go to the places I need to go there's other transportations I'm going to pocket all this money every month and I'm going to buy an electric car

For what ever the reason is its his reason it's his business if he's doing all the above I think he's one of the smartest guys around and he's doing what it takes to get ahead to become the person that he wants to become when it comes time how many of us are going to be stuck with our gasoline cars

There are a lot of people that have anxiety when they drive so he chooses not to but other lives in danger for whatever reason he's not a loser he's doing what he wants to do because it's the right thing for him

Maybe he lost his driver's license there are so many variables there's no reason to call a guy a loser just because he has or doesn't have something if that's the case then we are all losers because we all have something and we all don't have something depending on whatever an individual thinks that we should have and we don't then I guess we're all losers even yourself

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No, I don't have a car because I have no need for one.

They are a waste of money for anyone who does not need one, unless they are into cars as a hobby (I'm not).

The roads have too many cars congesting it as it is, and the idea of throwing thousands of dollars down the toilet each year when I can just walk or bike a few blocks or take a bus, a train, or a cab, is just stupid. I could see getting one if I had a need for it, but I don't.

It also doesn't give you charisma, nothing does, you either have that naturally, or you don't.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

In most places, yes, as most places don't have worthwhile timely public transportation. A man without a car is beholden to others to take care of chores or emergencies as well as actually go pick up his date.

Billlewis · Answer

These responses are very exciting, in my opinion. The dating world has really changed in recent years, to the point that women have such an overwhelming advantage over men, and what I love most about it is that they're not the least bit uncomfortable admitting that they prefer a guy who's got exactly what they're looking for, and nothing less.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

I had a car and when I moved to this dumpy town I'm in, the cops towed it. Now, drug dealers are driving it because this town is corrupt! Oops, too much information, lol.

Well, I had a nice car. I took care of it and always checked the fluids, but where I live, you can't have nice things. They will rob you blind! So, I guess in a way, it does make me a loser not having one.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Plenty of people don't drive and therefore, have no vehicle. So does that mean that all the people without vehicles are losers? No, it just means they don't have cars.

Car is not man's charisma. That sentence is not even grammatically correct..

Ptrmbrs88 · Answer

Not necessarily. He may not need a car if he lives in a large city that has abundant public transport, and where most things are within walking distance anyway. Cars cost a lot of money to keep, money that might be better spent on other things.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

No. My ex didn’t have a car, it didn’t make him any less attractive for me. Everything he had was totally enough for me to love him with all my heart.

Mangospacho · Answer

Depends on where you live and if you even need a car. If you’re in the city and take public transit everywhere, then a car is just to show off. If you’re in the suburbs or a rural area, you gotta have a car - it’s a basic necessity.

nolabels · Answer

I haven't owned a car in 40 years. After I bought my first truck, I found that I no longer had any use for a car. I sold it and never looked back.

glennos89 · Answer

Yes 😂😋 Everyone without a car is tbh.

A car means freedom. It can get you everywhere you want whenever you want. Dry, comfortable, and free of unnoying idiots that you find in public transport😂

Ohfigures · Answer

I think this is a privileged way of thinking. What about men/woman who have amazing character but grew up in conditions where they are unable to save money, only able to survive paycheck to paycheck. Not everyone has access to the same things. That by no means determine how valuable you are as a person. It's better not to judge, you never know a persons true circumstances.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Car = Two wheels too many.  A man WITH a car is kind of a loser in my eyes. But - hey! - each his own philistine position if he must. Let me suggest to wear a necktie and a suit as well :D

DermalPunch · Answer

Not particularly. There are plenty of losers who own cars.

richardcory · Answer

Not if he has a motorcycle and helicopter But seriously, it only an issue if he needs a car but can't get one

Anemone978 · Answer

I don't know.. I never dated a guy who didn't have a car.

electromagnetic · Answer

Nope. He’s just a man without a car. My partner didn’t have a car until 1.5 years into our relationship. Didn’t change anything.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Depends on where you live. In some cases, it is a complete waste of money to own one.

slatyb · Answer

Where does he live? Few people in New York City have cars. I expect it's the same in other dense cities.

musicbrain5 · Answer

Nope. Nobody even really needs a car to get around here. It’s not unusual for a guy not to have a car in those city.

Sour-rose · Answer

Nah, a n*gga without a life or responsibility with someone to take care of it for him... can be considered a losaaa

Babygirl_S · Answer

Not at all according to me especially if he's really handsome 😍 Give me younger Henry Cavill as a waiter. I am so attracted 😭.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Could be, but not automatically. Ritchie Blackmore, rock guitar legend who co-founded Deep Purple AND Rainbow, did not own a car till his late 30's despite being a millionaire several times over.

BeMuse · Answer

Nope. You sound brainwashed by the advertising industry. A typical puppet.

Yannishka · Answer

That isn't charisma to me. That's just an object. Some random vehicle I care little about. A man without a car is a man who hopefully doesn't need it.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Don’t see how not having a car would make someone a loser. No.

Quackthulu2 · Answer

Not necessarily. Depends on where he lives. And why he doesn’t have one.

Exterminatore · Answer

Yes, at least a loser in terms of resources and wealth, provided he doesn’t live in an area where owning a car is not beneficial. Like NYC for example.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, and a guy with a Prius is an even bigger loser.

Samantha36 · Answer

My boyfriend doesn't and he's the most amazing man iv ever met.

Anonymous · Answer

In the USA where you can't go anywhere without one yes.

Jersey2 · Answer

Not if he lives on the Upper West Side in Manhattan.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

In the United States and other high-income countries, yes, but that applies to men and women.

najekim · Answer

Depends what large metro area he lives in. Had a few friends living in large metro areas that didn't need a car because of good mass transit. Would rent a car for road trips.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Depends, I can't drive because of medical exemption so I don't own a car

mommymommymommy · Answer

Not necessarily. I have a girl "friend" who doesn't drive or own a car, I know that's a girl, but, I don't consider her a loser.

serafin · Answer

not exactly a loser but most men who are not poor/students own one here where I live

DarkLegacy · Answer

Can see why you went anon on this one, it is a fact that he is not. You are the loser here

HM1189 · Answer

European men after see this question: "Are we a joke to you?" Honestly?

Pohjolan · Answer

Not if he has other means of transportation available.

Billybob46 · Answer

No because there might be a legitimate reason, not everyone can afford one. Even some pro wrestlers don't have their own car until later on in life.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Not necessarily. Cars are expensive.

springxxx · Answer

Nope, it doesn't make him a loser

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Damn, I remember cars like that. Cool as fuck.

OldWomanBySoul · Answer

No wth

Simslover92 · Answer

Not always.

WonderBell99 · Answer

No, lmao

Spongebobssocks · Answer

No...

sunflower00 · Answer

Nope

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

No, why?

sheikalana · Answer

Nope.

LavLavLuv · Answer

No 😅

cocobellass · Answer

A little

Luckycharms12 · Answer

No far from it

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