How do I make him interested again?

[Anonymous]

Hello guys so there is guy that I have been with in a no strings attached relationship but now I feel like strings have started to attach and I don't want to let him go. What I see he is that kind of guy who flirts with other girls but just keeps coming back to me I never show him that it hurts me but it hurts a lot and he's always showing interest that he likes me he introduced me to his friends and family and he tells me everything and I even allowed him to get close to my friend one thing about him he's not consistent it's just that one time he says he loves me like crazy and how he wants a future with me and the next time he says he can't wait to meet my boyfriend and whenever I talk on the phone with a guy he snatches my phone away it's like he always wants me to be around and he and he just recently told me that he has started to fall for my friend the fact that he sounded so sure and not inconsistent like how he always with me that hurts me but he keeps calling me to meet him and he just says he wants to see me and he keeps telling me how he wants my friend. I know I sound ridiculous but I really miss the old me who was always hard on him I feel like he's being this way because like I lost my worth to him and I want to show him what he's missing he always keeps coming back whenever I do not talk to him for days and I want him to be really in deep in love with me

[Anonymous]

Never try to manipulate your way into a relationship. Maybe you don’t realize it but every step you’ve taken with that guy has been you pretending.
I’ve yet to meet a woman who actually wanted a long term casual sex partner, aka a “FWB”, and didn’t catch feelings for him. Like as women it’s impossible to share our bodies with men like that for any real length of time and not start like the guy. It’s too intimate, too connecting, we can't just do that over and over and have no emotion, how most men can.


Where you messed up is once you got to the realization that you liked him more than a friend, rather than be real with yourself and leave since he wouldn’t give you a relationship, you stuck around and you kept up the facade.
You hide your feelings, pretend you’re so different and chill and you’re fine with all that shit, but you’re not, so why lie to him and yourself? Do you realize that the only reason he opens up to you, still comes back when other situations fails and all that is because you’ve acted like you are fine with casual and ok with him screwing and dating other women.
You may not agree, but when you put on that mask and pretend to be something you’re not, then he will never know the real you and honestly he’d probably backpedal hard af if he knew you wanted more than sex and friendship. You’ll never get commitment, mutual romantic interest or any of that out of a man who never put that on the table for you in the first place. So my advice is to have a little more sense of self worth and get out of that situation.

[Anonymous]

By giving him blowjob n spreading your legs...

Sorry i just read your question n i answer i didn't read your explanation it's too long to read...

[spartan55]

Well the sooner you realize that ain't happenin the better. You are free sex to him. Why are seeing him when you want more?

[In_Trance]

You can't it's time to move on