My boyfriend apologised for telling his parents when we have sex, should I forgive him or move on?

[Anonymous]

Hi all, so I asked a few questions about this already. Long story short, my boyfriend admitted sometimes when we do the deed he informs his parents afterwards. I was horrified. He knew I was upset. He bought me flowers. The next time we were intimate I outright asked him ‘did you tell you parents?’. And he told me it’s private between us, nobody else should know and that is part of what makes it intimate.

This happened a week ago and I still haven’t told him how I really feel. Should I accept his apology? Should I be honest with how disgusted I felt? Should I move on?

[provokeesmokee]

It seems he noticed you were upset and correctly intuited the right way to handle it. Or his parents coached him.

If you're still feeling unsure, it is worth speaking to him about how you feel and how it made you feel.

He will gain more perspective on how and why you feel this way.

But go easy and aim to move on quickly. He has already apologized, has vowed not to do it anymore, and knows now your intimacy is private.

He's already taking steps to right his wrong. That's something to reward him for, recognize, and be thankful for.

[Asker]

I think I will do this, thank you

[RespectfulGuy]

He sounds like a nice guy. Not many would apologise nowadays.

And come on, which parents don't know their boys are sowing wild oats? And when they ask, they're not waiting for answer. Rather they're trying to find out if their little boy is with a fling.

Hence forgive. And keep him. You may regret if you give him up.

[MementoMori777]

Be honest if you want, I remember this but it's good that he accepted it and respects your opinion, that's good and if you can forgive and forget that's good too

[Danny_dan92]

Why is he even doing that? They don’t need to know that

[najekim]

Get over yourself and have fun with the boyfriend. Any parent with children your age knows you're having sex anyways.

[In_Trance]

Lol, I'm sure they had no idea...

[Kelly6]

yes forgive