What is the biggest lesson you learned from each relationship, and the respective ex’s name?

[Danny_dan92]

Haley - How to not be an asshole to a girlfriend/wife


Cassidi - Chemistry is important to maintaining a healthy relationship


Marie - What I do not deserve to put up with.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Way too many women and names I don't remember. Natsumi was a girl I should've treated better and Nabuko was a dumb bitch I shouldn't of fucked with to begin with. Random girls I picked up at bars always equaled trouble in the long run... a bunch of cheaters... not cheating on me, but cheating on their men with me. The rest was hookers except some other girls here and there.

A lot of fucking cheaters cheating on their men now that I think about it. I didn't know until I knew... it's not like I set out to swipe other dude's girls. There is something I learned though... a cheater is gonna cheat and she's going to places like that to cheat. Don't believe all that "I just like to dance with the girls" bullshit. Naw... she's there for the dick.

[provokeesmokee]

Mike - don't date cowards or men who studied gender studies. Listen to your gut, and don't wait so long to break up.

Nick - don't date long distance, learned what "learned helplessness" is and red flags for mom behaviours that signal a manchild son, it's ok to let people face the terrible consequences of their actions. Don't tolerate a manchild.

Sandy - yeah, girl, you gay. Learned how to exit quickly when I identified she had unrealized feelings for a friend of hers, and learned to pay attention to what's said to friends. It uncovered an irreconcilable difference that sealed the deal on top of her unrequited feelings for her friend.

Still learning with my last ex, but she's the first ex I want to stay friends with (a commonality in the queer community to boot). I really appreciate her but the irreconcilable differences make us just not right for each other as lovers. But hopefully we can keep a friendship.

[jennifer_bloom]

From religious guy - Learned commitment is earned on both sides and not a singular act of agreeing to date each others. I also learned quality is better than quantity and guys have different degrees of interest that can increase or decrease by how you interact with them.

[ShadezMcgee]

Faith- watch their actions and see if it matches their words.

Brit- Believe someone when they tell you something about themselves

Katie- sexual compatibility is important

[Emelina]

I learned to go extremely slow and enjoy the relationship, and not to have high expectations bc thats how I got hurt and I learned not to rush it. I usually end my relationships in good terms with the ex's.

[LiamJHayden]

The only lesson I've learned is that, for me, being single is better than being in a bad or even a mediocre relationship.

[MementoMori777]

Love makes you weak and vulnerable