Why does my boyfriends mum ignore me and exclude me from the family chat? (Page 2)

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I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year, I’ve recently spent time with him and his family. I’m very kind and polite to his mum but I get cold vibes, like she doesn’t like me or approve of me for some reason. Recently she’s stopped interacting with me on social media and she has stopped liking my posts, even though she views my stories all the time. In a group chat between my boyfriend and his parents his dad and my boyfriend interact with me and like my comments and talk to me but his mum completely ignores me. It’s become very obvious she is purposely excluding me. She will reply to my boyfriend and his dad but ignore all my comments. Her husband (my boyfriends dad) always replies to my stories and comments nice things on my posts but she has never done that. It’s interesting that she’s always looking at what I’m doing and views my stories all the time, but she acts like I’m invisible. When I’m around her she acts like my presence really bothers her and is cold and snappy with me. What is her issue with me? Why does she ignore me and exclude me?

Anonymous · Answer

It's just silly social media. Why do peope care if someone likes their comment or reply to it online? This mother has no reason to be doing that with her son's girlfriend.

Iron_Man · Answer

She’s kind of strict like a marine would do. They tear you down and point you in a certain direction then they build you up then they will show you the love.

boggboss · Answer

Because he clearly likes it and dont care if it bothers u

RHK36 · Answer

She does it because you stick around for it. The only person I give a pass on criticism is my mom and myself. Everyone else can eat a bag of...

Anonymous · Answer

I find it hard to believe you needed to essentially ask the same thing twice in 5 minutes after having asked it multiple times already.

DextroShade · Answer

Long-distance relationships are a joke. He is obviously entertaining her because she could actually have sex with him.

OddBeMe · Answer

At your age, weird, no offense. My in laws hated me at first. In that “protect your child, we’re losing her” way.

pethouse · Answer

It’s possible that she believes her son could do better? Nothing against you tho I don't know you. But I seen it on old tv shows all the time.

Anonymous · Answer

It was highly unnecessary for you to copy and paste yesterday's same question over again.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Moms can be super protective of their sons. Just give it time.

Christoff92 · Answer

She probably thinks you're a bad influence to her son. Assuming

boobliker · Answer

teasing him most lickly If there are more than 3 girls working and fewer boy it always happens

mommymommymommy · Answer

Mothers will never like their baby boys girlfriend. It's just a fact

Anonymous · Answer

You have no reason to be putting up with that, especially if you are really 27.

Mrgoodstuff62 · Answer

It’s because you e only been dating for a year

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Mothers can be overly-protective.

elizamichale1 · Answer

I think be direct n ask her straight honey

In_Trance · Answer

because you're banging her son

krin_m · Answer

She probably has psychological issues.

Anonymous · Answer

She's a jealous biattch.

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