Nope… Of course no. I learned and I grew… That was a very stressful period for me.
We broke up 8 times because we couldn’t fly to each other’s countries and we were both frustrated and disappointed after years of long distance. He was sexually frustrated. That happened in the last 8 months of our relationship, we broke up almost every month, it was mainly him - who initiated and then came back every time and then we broke up finally.
This time I know it better, not to accept a man back once he has thought of breaking up with me.
But I was thinking, I would go back to his country and it would save our relationship so I was accepting his apologies and accepted him back. Looking back, I wouldn’t do it again, it hurt me a lot.
Every time he came back, he told me I was special and he couldn’t find anyone who’d match me, or who could love him the same way I did and that I treated him like he has never been treated and that he was a fool for hurting me and that he loved me.
He asked me, you know why I always keep coming back to you? Even after 2 years of long distance and sexlessness? - Because you make me feel like a man I always wanted to be.
But his actions hurt me a lot and I could no longer forgive being treated this way, I started standing up for myself and when he saw I no longer wanted to put up with his behavior, he broke up with me finally. I loved him, but you can’t always forgive when you are hurt so often that you don’t have time to get healed.
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Not really. Most of my ex went away for college and careers. So now we're just good friends that keep in touch.
nope but one ex boyfriend did try to ask me out and i rejected him since he was a cheaters
why would i "reconcile"? our ways separated and that's all there is to it.
Never done it and never will, to avoid going back I burn that bridge.
No1 has to drink poison because they thirst.
No way, end of relationship is like turning the page, there is no turning back
Hell no. Once someone is an ex, I delete them from my life entirely.
Bad. Than awesome! Then horrible. I finally noticed a pattern after the third woman.
Yes, about 8 times. We broke up 9 times.
Would you do it again?
Nope… Of course no. I learned and I grew… That was a very stressful period for me.
We broke up 8 times because we couldn’t fly to each other’s countries and we were both frustrated and disappointed after years of long distance. He was sexually frustrated. That happened in the last 8 months of our relationship, we broke up almost every month, it was mainly him - who initiated and then came back every time and then we broke up finally.
This time I know it better, not to accept a man back once he has thought of breaking up with me.
But I was thinking, I would go back to his country and it would save our relationship so I was accepting his apologies and accepted him back. Looking back, I wouldn’t do it again, it hurt me a lot.
You learned from the experience, and now you are a stronger woman.
Wait, I think I counted wrongly, we broke up about 5-6 times in the last 8 months and reconciled every time, but the 6th or 7th break up was final.
Every time he came back, he told me I was special and he couldn’t find anyone who’d match me, or who could love him the same way I did and that I treated him like he has never been treated and that he was a fool for hurting me and that he loved me.
He asked me, you know why I always keep coming back to you? Even after 2 years of long distance and sexlessness? - Because you make me feel like a man I always wanted to be.
But his actions hurt me a lot and I could no longer forgive being treated this way, I started standing up for myself and when he saw I no longer wanted to put up with his behavior, he broke up with me finally. I loved him, but you can’t always forgive when you are hurt so often that you don’t have time to get healed.
Love isn't enough!
I really tried to be my best version as his girlfriend. I don’t know what else could I be to be enough.
Yes and it turned out well. We still see each other regularly!
Never reconciled with any of my ex-girlfriends.
No. Move forward, never backwards
The best way to see your ex is in your rear-view mirror!
Yes!
Still send Christmas cards. No hostilities- just went separate ways.
i did not and would not
Nope
I did it 5 times
Same guy five times?
Yes the same guy
Why? What kept drawing you back to him?
I loved him
It usually takes an experience like this to learn that love (or what we think is love) is not enough to make a relationship work.
Yep you right
No. Once I move on I move on for good.
Nah, I haven't
never have as it can't go anywhere good!
Tried and it failed. Never again.
It was hard and ended going separate ways again