After two years together how can an ex just jump into a new relationship within weeks of the breakup? (Page 2)

[sheikalana]

Trust me when someone moves on that quickly means the other woman has been in his life for a while.

[mommymommymommy]

The girl that likes me/i like (weve liked each other for a LONGGGGGGG time), she just got out of a bad one, and we're already kissing. Nothing serious, yet, just kissing

[provokeesmokee]

Some folks move on quick, some folks rebound and struggle, some folks take forever.

Everyone's different, but you can be sure this is probably just a rebound for him.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Have you considered that maybe, just maybe, this was getting its start before you actually broke up?

[Nikki1989]

It is easy. I even moved on the same day. Life is too short for wasted opportunities.

[LazerBean]

For one, dating someone for 2 years doesn't necessarily mean much of anything.

[Asker]

Wow, that sounds quite harsh! I guess some people “commit” without actually commuting. Not me though so that doesn’t speak to me. I don’t have such strong attachment issues.

[LazerBean]

If people were actually committed then they would not be breaking up. People who treat dating like marriage exactly the ones who end up damages with commitment issues.

[Drewtate]

They haven't jumped into anything. They were already in another relationship and dumped you when things worked out with the other.

[blueonblack22]

Because he already had her lined up. It’s that simple.

[Raaj4you]

Bcoz he is a human, everyone needs a companion. He can't dwell in the past. You know single life sucks.

[Asker]

Single life doesn’t suck, there are pros and cons to both. But I guess some people just prefer to be in “relationships”.

[Raaj4you]

May be you are right.

[Anonymous]

Men can easily drop emotional baggage especially with a li'l help from a few brewskies or a joint and a place to unload their semen.

[Anonymous]

Few people have ever experienced true love and most have no idea of this. But often this fact shows itself in situations as you just described.

[dudeinohio]

I can jump into. a new relationship within days of a breakup.

It's easy. When it's over, I simply move on
.

[Guido]

People only leave a relationship when they have someone else to go to unless the breakup is for some type of abuse.

[CuriousMufuxka]

I've never understood that beyond a rebound. It's mostly why I've ceased contact after me and my ex's are over. Let's move on separately.

[Kinkyhubby]

If they did, they check out a long time ago, and never really cared

[Blueeyes81]

Because he moved on long before you guys broke up.

[pethouse]

That’s messed up I’m sorry to hear that

[Asker]

Thank you

[RavVid]

Some people have a new partner in a week

[Thot_Stomper]

I believe it’s called…co-dependency

[lightbulb27]

explain?

[Thot_Stomper]

You can’t be alone. You always need to be in a relationship or you feel incomplete and panicky

[BLP11520]

He had her waiting in the wings maybe?