Guys, would you be mad if your girlfriend for the round with her Bestie?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Guys, would you be mad if your girlfriend who took care of you cook for you clean for you let you stay over her house as much as you wanted didn’t have to pay any bills because you’re in college, she paid for everything, but she had a totally hot best friend, female friend, and the two of us like to fool around do girl stuff. She’s totally hot and your girlfriend and her bestie just like to explore and do stuff with each other and they’re best friends. Would that make you mad?

[Leapfrog00]

As long as she told me what was going on, I would be fine with it. If it was a guy, I would have to worry about him getting her pregnant, but with a girl, I would have nothing to worry about. I date a girl once who messed around with her best friend all the time. She liked the best of both worlds and I understood. I'm bi-curious myself and like bodies on both guys and girls, so I understand. I would never date another guy but sex is really hot.

I've had threesomes before with a guy and girl and it was amazing! Everyone has different preferences though, and I'm sure some guys would get jealous if there girl was with other girls, but everyone is different. You have to enjoy this miserable hellish life and take what you can and fly free. There's nothing wrong with exploring! It's all about the journey!

[bowenw]

I would be okay with it especially if she was open about it.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

OK thank you

[bowenw]

Anytime PizzaPieMamaBear.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Thanks.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

I think my son, is going to tell my boyfriend what’s been going on with me and my Bestie

[bowenw]

You may want to get ahead of it and tell your boyfriend before he does so he hears it from you.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

What do I tell him exactly?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

My son kinda walked in on my bestie it’s our fault the door wasn’t locked by mistake. He walked in on us in my bedroom. She got furious/embarrassed she was like straddled on top of me and he walked in she screamed close the F’in door get the F out. He like got embarrassed 😳 and just like walked out I was no, no like we’re fooling around close the door please

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

He’s mad about it & gonna tell my boyfriend

[bowenw]

I think you may just want to tell him you've always wanted to try it with a girl and you decided to do it with your bestie who you know will keep it a secret. Reassure him it in no way affects how you feel about him. If you want to fool around with her more I'd tell him that too.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

About four months ago, we agreed that I could try it once. Because me and my bestie really wanted to. It was so much fun I guess about a month and a half ago maybe two months ago once wasn’t enough we’ll say and we started fooling around on a regular basis

[bowenw]

I think you owe it to your boyfriend to be open and honest with him. Now that your son knows you're not going to be able to keep it a secret even if you wanted to.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

My boyfriend already kinda knows something last weekend we are at the beach my my boyfriend my son, a IRL friend from the app her hubby and son who’s the same age as my son anyway my friend and I were wearing bright like green matching g string bikinis. My boyfriend noticed I had a mark on my butt, he goes what’s that, my bestie and I were fooling around the night before and she left a set of teeth marks on my cheeks. Like she was nibbling lol 😆 he said what’s that I said I don’t know I can’t see he goes that’s teeth marks wtf? I was like it’s prob from you!! He was like bS I don’t do that that’s from your friend

[bowenw]

That may be a good way to broach the subject with your boyfriend. Tell him he was correct, the teeth marks were made by her. You don't want to have any secrets from him and you want to continue to fool around with her on occasion.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

That’s good advice. I’m so embarrassed like my son knows and is going to tell my boyfriend

[bowenw]

If you can beat him to it I think it will be best.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Ok one more thing how do I bring it up to my son lol, like he clearly knows I hook up with my friend it’s super weird how to I bring it up to him? Like how do I break the ice with him

[bowenw]

He obviously knows so it's not like it will be a surprise. You may want to tell him you're sorry he saw what he did and going forward you will be more careful and he should knock before entering. If he askes why you were with her tell him it's a side of you and your boyfriend knows all about it.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

He doesn’t really know all about hrs kinda asked him about my friend before and remever our son was at the beach with us when my boyfriend called out the teeth marks on my cheeks

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Also, my son is really mad that my bestie screamed at him and was like get the F out close the F’in door” should I mention she was wrong for doing that? For speaking like that? Or just let it be. He said he knocked heard giggling and thought it was safe to come in

[bowenw]

I suggest telling your boyfriend first, then tell your son that your boyfriend knows all about you and your girlfriend. I'd mention to him she was super embarrassed to be seen like that and the reason she was so upset and swore at him.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Lol she’s not my girlfriend like that she’s just my bestie… ok should I also talk about that to her and have her apologize to my son? He’s upset by it but she’s pissed he didn’t knock but he claims he did. He walked in and she was just in like her black little panties straddled on top of me

[bowenw]

Sorry I used the wrong word for her.
It would probably be a nice gesture if she apologized for what she said to him. I don't see any harm in asking your bestie to do that.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Gimme your honest opinion do you think she was wrong for saying that if he didn’t actually knock

[bowenw]

I don't think she was wrong. She was obviously very embarrassed. In hindsight she probably wouldn't have sworn at him, but it was in the heat of the moment.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Haha it was definitely the heat of the moment lol we were having our girly fun lol I couldn’t believe he walked in I swear we never heard him knocking then she hollered at him and he hit embarrassed/mad and just walked out abd was like no, no, no sweety you gotta close the door we can’t get up we’re fooling around

[bowenw]

It's too bad that happened but I'm sure you can deal with it as you seem to have everything under control. Please let me know how it goes.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

I just talked to my boyfriend it went ok he said he kinda knew he said we will talk more about it tomorrow after the bbq both my bestie and him are gonna be at the bbq

[bowenw]

That is very good news. Good for you for being brave and talking to him about it. I hope it goes just as well at the BBQ.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Now I gotta go talk to my sim about what he saw lol how do I bring that up to him… I know he has seen us kissing before and one time he saw us in our little bikinis laying out by the pool I was on top of her and kinda had my face like buried in her chest lol but this was different we were alone in the bedroom kinda stuff like I said she was down to her panties. What do I say to him

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Son*

[bowenw]

Sorry I didn't get a notification that you had replied.
I think you just need to be honest with him and explain you and your bestie enjoy being physical with each other. Reassure him that it doesn't mean you love your boyfriend any less and that you are not cheating on him because he is aware of it.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Yea you’re right!! Is it weird and embarrassing for him to se his mom being sexy with a hot chick?

[bowenw]

It's probably weird that he saw you, but he may also have been turned to see her.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

I know it’s a weird situation

[bowenw]

You can't change who you are. All you can to do is explain it to him and ask that he respect your choices.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

So my bestie had a talk with my son and apologized it was interesting to say the least. She apologized for cussing and telling him to get the F out. She said she had caught him peaking at her chest, down her shirt and she called him out for peaking at her once in her underwear (this happened). She said he went upstairs one time to sneak a peak when she was in her lingerie and that’s it’s getting to be a bit much. She said she shouldn’t have screamed but we didn’t hear a knock there’s no reason to knock, if you do wait for a response. She says your mom and I are still best friends so that hasn’t changed but you need to respect our privacy. That she was down to her panties and me just my g string and we were in the middle of fooling around if the door is closed and your mom and I in the room there’s a good chance we’re being intimate so don’t knock and unless it’s an emergency Def don’t come in until one of us instructs you too! What do you think?

[bowenw]

I think your bestie did a very good job of explaining the situation and the rules while still being tactful and respectful. Did he have anything to say?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

I DM’d you

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Thank you for the advice

[bowenw]

I hope it helped

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Read my last message

[bowenw]

😊😊

[AviatorTom]

I'd only be mad if I couldn't watch, and sometimes participate.

[GreatBigCircles]

I wouldn't, but that's because I personally am not a particularly jealous person. As long as I felt secure that my girlfriend valued me and wanted to be with me, I wouldn't care much as long as she was open about it and I didn't have any problems with the person in question.

I don't think anyone should simply assume their boyfriend is okay with, or SHOULD be okay with that kind of thing. It's a dynamic that is unique to every relationship, and part of respecting your partner means working out what they are and aren't comfortable with. Not being okay with it and wanting a sexually exclusive relationship is just as valid.

[NathanDavis]

this kind of stuff should be as per agreement and not just because... lol

as for the other part of the question, I'm already a resourceful and self-sufficient adult, so I am not into being taken care for like toddler... not like that, lol

[Miristheiss]

Well, I assume you mean sexual. You two are sexually touching each other.

That would be a 100% deal breaker. I'd disappear and you'd never hear from me again.

!. It is cheating. I don't share any partner sexually in any way.

2. I would never girlfriend or wife up a bisexual person. I'm only with straight women.

Mad? That implies I'd stick around. I'd be gone. I don't have time for that nasty, disrespectful, low character, loose stuff.

[Losalt]

If they didn't *ask* first, yes.
I don't mind sharing a partner.
But I expect to be kept in the loop.

[Surely]

Under those circumstances. A guy would be a fool if he objected to her having a girlfriend.
If she had a guy friend. It would be harder to swallow, but you would still be crazy with the benefits you are receiving to object!

[Hiroshi-Kun]

I’m open to the idea if she was honest about it from the start.

[soe11]

The person is in opinion inhuman, she should kick out form her roof.

[PointTaken]

As long as we talk about it and it's not a secret, I'm cool with it.

[TallAnon]

As long as I get to join in, sounds like a sweet deal.

[msc545]

Would not bother me even the slightest - no matter what you did or didn't do for me.

[Paige90]

I am not a guy but it wouldn't bother me.

[exitseven]

I would want to join them.

[mommymommymommy]

So, like having a bi girlfriend?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Just my bestie she’s hot she thinks I’m hot we do girly stuff

[mommymommymommy]

Yeah that makes you bi

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

No it’s just my girl I’m not into chicks otherwise we’re just besties and like our girls only time

[mommymommymommy]

Call it what you want

YOU'RE BI

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

How so?

[mommymommymommy]

Because you're having sexual relations with both sexes.

That's called being bi

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

We’re not really having sex it’s not really sex if there’s no you know what lol we just call it our girly time or our private time

[mommymommymommy]

ANy sort of physical contact, is called being bi

[mommymommymommy]

Any*

[mommymommymommy]

Physical contact, sex or not, that's why i said, SEX, but it doesn't HAVE to be sex

GET THE FUCK OVER IT, HUN, you're BI, GET OVER IT

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Hooking up with your best girlfriend isn’t bi

[mommymommymommy]

Yes, it is hun. That's called being bi

I don't hook up with my guy friends

IM NOT BI

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Eeeww I hope not

[mommymommymommy]

That's my point. I'm not bi because i don't fuck my guy friends. I'm completely straight and never had a thought of it

You, are bi. You were born that way, and you're just having a hard time accepting it, likely because you're a republicuck

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Maybe my bestie is just hot af and we’re super close and like fooling around with each other did you ever think if that

[mommymommymommy]

You're bi hun

I'm not bi because im not sexually attracted to guys, AND girls. You are, You like your best friend, you just can't admit it because your'e a fucking bitch, at this point

[KrakenAttackin]

Nah, have at it.

[QuietRunner]

I wouldn't mind at all

[Anonymous]

Only if I can join

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Can’t me and my bestie just have a little girl time

[Opinion Owner]

Would you like it if your boyfriend was with someone else?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Like hanging with his boys doing guy stuff?

[Opinion Owner]

No with another girl

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Of course not

[Opinion Owner]

That’s how I’d feel,

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Right I’d never do stuff with another guy