Why do these thoughts continue to haunt me: "Still a virgin at 33? Something must be wrong with you"?

[Anonymous]

"Still a virgin at 33? Something must be wrong with you."

"The only reason any woman would give you the time of day is to use you as an ATM"

"You see them? They know, and they are mocking you"

"You missed your chance when you were younger, all that's left is everyone else's leftovers"

"No one will ever love you and you will die alone"

These are just some of the thoughts that pop into my head from time to time. Recently I opened up to someone I know and they told me I likely have this standard in my head of what an Ideal person should be. It's not even about the fact that I haven't gotten my dick wet, it's the fact that something must be fundamentally wrong with me to not have been in a relationship at my age. Not making 100k a year and still a virgin and because of that I'm a failure as a human being and I'd be better off digging up landmines then wasting oxygen.

I know its Illogical, its irrational and it doesn't make any sense at all... so why do these thoughts keep coming back?

[RealMarek]

There is nothing wrong with you because you are a virgin. There is this thinking that sex is rocket science or something. It is not. You can read up on female anatomy and sexual technique in books, and the rest is all about not holding back, paying attention to how a woman responds to what you’re doing, and the like. So don’t ever worry that virginity per se makes you less than desirable. What is more apt to be wrong is a lack of confidence. If you’re in decent shape, emotionally stable, can cover your expenses, not an addict, and not abusive there should be plenty of women in their thirties who are of a level of attractiveness similar to yours will want to date you. If you’re this type of guy you are a rare commodity. Make sure you pay a little attention to how you dress, know how to wear a suit, keep your house or apartment very clean (women love that when the time comes). If you do online dating, research how to make a high-quality profile and what kind of photos to take.

“…all that's left is everyone else's leftovers”

When I started dating after the failure of my marriage, I realized that almost every woman I met would probably have a higher body count than mine, which was one. I found that the rare middle-aged virgin women didn’t want anything to do with a man who had been divorced and had a child. I advise you to not think of women as other men’s leftovers. A lot of women were betrayed by men or, for some reason or other, made bad decisions about men. Of course, you need to be alert for baggage they might be carrying into a relationship due to their past and also whether they were responsible for the failed relationships and if they have grown since then. She needs to be over her exes and not excusing bad behavior in the present due to her past. Really focus on who the woman in front of you is in the present because almost all of us have been affected by the social chaos of modernity. If you find a woman with whom you are compatible, have mutual attraction, who treats you well, is kind hearted, who takes responsibility for her decisions and the consequences, is trustworthy, has similar values, and who is capable of bonding with you - these are things I looked for and you’ll have your own - what is the problem? Try not to pass up a good thing.

[Asker]

Its more this idea that everyone my age has already had their fun and now are looking to settle down and expect me to be faithful depriving myself of the experiences they likely had already. It doesn't seem fair

[RealMarek]

If I have learned one thing in life, it is that life is not fair. I also missed out on the fun and had a horrible marriage with my first girlfriend, who also cleaned me out during the divorce. At the same time, my career ended up ruined because I refused to do some unethical things and got laid off and blacklisted, then the ESG rules made it difficult to get a normal job because I’m not “diverse.” Very unfair. But you know, nothing is to be done about this. I made a bad decision in marriage, I flew too high in companies with crooked executives. So back to square one. At least I was free to catch up on lost time, but I looked at how a lot of middle aged guys who went out and had fun with a lot of women ended up with a hollow feeling inside after awhile and decided not to go wild. I did not want to get embroiled in a mediocre relationship because of seeking pleasure and this happens to a lot of men. So I waited to have fun until I was sure I had found an amazing woman and a loving, committed relationship. That took time, but for me it was worth waiting for. The lost time sucks, but I choose to focus on the good things in my life now that I missed out on when I was young. When it comes to intimacy, experiencing it with the right woman feels like touching something eternal and makes all that lost time and all those regrets melt away. I’m just glad I get to experience real love at all because I know many people do not.

[Asker]

Sadly this is exactly why I soured on romance I just want a little fun

[RealMarek]

Well, if you want a little fun it is more easily attained if you have those qualities I described in the first response. If you do, you have every reason to be confident and I would ignore the stigma against virginity. There are a lot of sexually experienced guys who are lousy in bed because they’re selfish. Anyway, I’ve always been a romantic of sorts. I would just urge not going completely wild and to be discriminating about who you have fun with because having fun can somehow turn into getting hooked into a less than ideal relationship. I’ve seen many such cases.

[Asker]

Well thankfully that's not the case with me... it's just no fun if i'm the only one enjoying myself.

[RealMarek]

Yeah, I’ve been there

[Finchie40]

I couldn’t imagine , no offense , I love girls and I love sex I was the youngest of 2 older brothers that were into girls as well , I was also molested by an older women when I was 9/10 years old and crazy to say I actually enjoyed it , even though I was nervous , I use to fool around with her daughter as well that was my age , that I believe was molested as well , as I look back at it , So being introduced to girls and sex at a young age definitely impacted me to loving girls and sex , but the messed up thing is , I can’t just have sex with any girl , I need to feel chemistry and connection and need to feel it’s going somewhere , I always asked myself why that is cuz I know their are plenty of guys that can just have sex with a girl for the hell of it , I am so not that way , and I honestly feel like it stems down from being molested. I just read a whole article on being a male that was
Molested and it shocked the shit out of me because it pretty much described my whole life not realizing it actually affected me while I was thinking it didn’t. I never thought of myself as this hot guy that all girls’ wanted , I was more shy then anything , when girls would come on to me, I would be surprised thinking she must be blind or some shit

[Finchie40]

It took a long time for me to accept who I am , having constant question marks over my head , which I still somewhat have til this day , I experienced a lot of craziness with girls through the years , I am no Don Juan but I can honestly say I am pretty wise when it comes to girls ‘ Most girls’ think they are sneaky but little do they realize they aren’t, I won’t tolerate a girls selfish behavior most girls are selfish from my experiences, So I only go for the ones that know how to remove selfishness , the ones that don’t I don’t waste my time , For you to get a girl and to get laid man you have to overcome your shyness and your anxiety , Most girls are drawn to confidence , a guy’s masculine energy , she wants a guy that she
Can look up to not look down to , to keep a girl by your side or have her interested in you , you have to be a leader and be confident about yourself , make her feel she is lucky to have you not the other way around , you don’t have to be an asshole but play it like you are perfectly capable of living your life without her , Most girls love the game of cat and mouse but , Never chase a girl , make her chase you. A girl is not going to spread her legs to a guy that she feels is weak she will spread them for a guy she feels is confident and strong. Best advice I can give man , stop selling yourself short , you don’t have to be the best looking guy on the planet , Girls don’t look at Guy’s like guy’s look at girls , Most girls want a man she can look up to and feel safe and protected by that can tolerate her hormonal craziness , if you do all that for her she will be on her knees for you

[EmyyWolf]

Well maybe if you stop thinking of people as leftovers, all that would stop.

Im not gonna lie in my early 20’s as a virgin I use to think the same way and I was extremely obese and unattractive.

”Why would a guy ever love you”

”Every guy has already had a first time at your age”

”You’re late to the game”

“You’re missing out everyone moved on without you”

It took me courage to loose all the weight, be included and start dating. Either with dating apps or people at work or surrounding me. Later on I left the dating apps cause I didn’t need them anymore. People care about looks first and foremost. If you look like you’re lacking YOU WILL MISS OUT. Wether you’re male or female. There’s a certain mind-set that you get as an undesirable. Speaking from my own experience 👆

[Asker]

@EmyyWolf The point I was trying to make is that it's an irrational thought that I know isn't true. And yet the thought still comes.

[EmyyWolf]

Yeah! Because you’re probably lonely. Loneliness gets to you. You’re always surrounded by your thoughts and judgment of people.

Try to get out of your home and touch some grass. Join a sport or club. Be somewhere that you can be physically engaged. That helped me a lot. Never stay alone for too long with your thoughts. For the times that you’re alone have a journal were you can write down your thoughts even if they’re awful. This helps.
Or download music. Music you can move to. Not something boring.

[EmyyWolf]

@Asker
“ Not making 100k a year and still a virgin”

You don’t have to make 100K a year to not be a virgin. Women who get with men for their money. Do NOT love that man. THEY DO NOT. If anything, those men get very little sex.

You can work a McDonald’s job and still get ass. PLENTY of ass. As long as you look like a Chad / Brad / SuperMan/ .
So you have 2 options. Either Looks-Max and become a Chad yourself.
Or try and get rich to get very little sex in the end.

Or you could do what these losers are telling you… go to Colombia/ Thailand/ Brazil. And purchase cheap women for their fake validation. You’d then be a passport bro. But you still have to pay that $300 - $500 plane ticket there and back here… 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️
So passport-bros still end up spending almost $1000 when trying to purchase cheap overused women from disenfranchised nations.

[EmyyWolf]

Not only that, but you could definitely end up catching plenty of diseases from poor women overseas. Diseases you’ve never heard of.. 💅
Just saying it for what it is… I’m not from here, I know…. 💅

[Asker]

If it makes you feel any better I don't think Western women lack certain values, I just think modern discourse makes things needlessly complicated. Sides if someone tries to gaslight you into buying a 3k gucci bag, you might as well spend that money on a two week sex fest, at least then you know what you're getting into.

[EmyyWolf]

Then good luck catching horrible diseases 🖕 or getting robbed and drugged. You think these passports losers have it so great? Do it.
Undesirables deserve to share those overused women with eachother 💅💅💅

While I get Chad, Brad and SuperMan. You can take your grotesque self over there and no one will miss you if something happens to you.

[EmyyWolf]

I already told you that you could get plenty of women right now where you live, without spending a single dime, as long as you upgrade in looks. Otherwise you’re an undesirable. Sexually undesirable and no one wants to replicate with you.
If you go over there stay there. Cause now you’re a liability and could bring diseases here. Go catch Ebola and Hepatitis, and Other COVID’s out there 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
BYE BYE…

[Asker]

I'm assuming you mean more then just simple hygiene practices, grooming, facial care, etc? Cause I already do all that. Doesn't change the fact that im still old.

[EmyyWolf]

No not just hygiene so that you don’t look Like a bum and smell like a rat.

I mean weight lifting, weight training. Growing muscles. Looking like some Brad Pitt BaddAss. Being more masculine and dominant in your behavior. Making your voice deeper. Actually growing hair on your head.

I literally made tips on this. It’s called the BLACKPILL. I even made a playlist to help men.

How To Be Highly Masculine In 2023 ↗

How To Be Highly Masculine In 2023 (PRT-2) ↗

youtube.com/playlist

______________________________

I put the work in as a woman. I WANTED THE BEST QUALITY MALE. So I did my best to weightlift and loose all the weight. Otherwise I’d stay stuck where I was. Looking to food for comfort. Not being able to sexually compete with other women. Being addicted to porn because I too was a porn addict. The only sex I got was from my fingers and my hairbrush. I never had a first kiss or anything like that if I chose to stay where I was at 20. I was so depressed and nothing inspired me.

One day I met a Chad Brad at a new job at got. I heard he was screwing all the girls at my job. I was so jealous and frustrated and lonely. He inspired me to change. BECAUSE I WANTED TO EXPERIENCE MORE. AND I WENT FOR IT.

I didn’t take the loser route and go screw some old guy or some homeless guy or some ugly black guy. JUST BECAUSE I WAS SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED. I took the route of morality and honor.

[EmyyWolf]

So yeah, you can go get your d-k wet in a disenfranchised nation. Just know that you’re sharing those women with hundreds of thousands of other men.
Know that you could potentially catch some disease. Know that you could get robbed or assaulted. Know that those women don’t actually like you or are in any way sexual attracted to you at all. You’re sharing those women with some of the most undesirable men you’ve ever seen in your entire f-king life 😂. Even if you purchase cheap women here. Same applies. At the end of the day. That woman is not sexually attracted to you. She doesn’t ACTUALLY want to f-k you it’s why you have to pay 😂 the moment you have to pull out your wallet to get some ass. YOU SHOULD KNOW YOUR VALUE. THATS THE MOMENT YOU KNOW YOUR OWN SEXUAL APPEAL. 🤡

https://youtu.be/4hosribePiA
https://youtu.be/lWk8-oG-nI0
https://youtu.be/BbcWtlvKdAQ

If you purchase women YOU ARE A MAN. WHO CANNOT COMPETE WITH OTHER MEN ‼️‼️

[Asker]

... See you're the kind of girl who would make fun of the nerd in school for being weak and shit, and then when he gets his massive glow up you suck up so hard it makes professional cocksuckers jealous, trying to act like none of the shit you did before even happened.

Also did you seriously just suggest black men are ugly?

[EmyyWolf]

https://youtu.be/4hosribePiA

[Asker]

... you see shit like this is why no one wants to date white women anymore.

[EmyyWolf]

https://youtu.be/lWk8-oG-nI0
Look, here is the bros you’re gonna be “sharing” with 😂😂😂.

[Asker]

Shouldn't have been carrying all his money with him at once. Poor boy should have done his research beforehand

[EmyyWolf]

Better get acquainted with them… those are the guys you’re gonna be sharing the flight with… 😂

[Asker]

Well I will say you did me a favor and helped me realize a valuable lesson. "Just because a woman has a low body count, doesn't mean she doesn't belong to the streets"

[EmyyWolf]

And take this with you:
🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼

[Asker]

Oh I think you need that way more than I do. Also I would advise you to avoid sleeping around. I would want a man to get arrested for sleeping with a child

[Daniela1982]

Just because everyone fucks like rabbits, it doesn't make you a loser. I may not be a virgin (body count of 1), and I'm in my 30's too. Neither of us is a loser. We are just more picky than the rest of the world is my thought. It will come when it comes. It comes most often when you are not actively seeking it. So be of good cheer. Girls are drawn to men who are cheerful and who smile a lot. Humor is also a big draw. So live, and laugh. The rest will fall into place.

[coachTanthony]

Book that trip to Thailand and those thoughts go away.

[coachTanthony]

@RingOfFire LOL.

[SouthernWhiteMan]

@RingOfFire I agree

[EmyyWolf]

@RingOfFire
Those women are gold-diggers. And you don’t actually marry them. Those are pros——utes.
CHEAP PROS—-ES

[EmyyWolf]

@SouthernWhiteMan
The asker literally said that all women are “leftovers”. What do you think women in Thailand are? 🤡🤡🤡🤡
You’ve any idea how many men go to see those women? 🤡🤡🤡🤡

[SouthernWhiteMan]

@EmyyWolf Have you ever had a boyfriend or first love?

[Nikki1989]

@EmyyWolf So many childish men on this site. Sad.

[Asker]

That childishness is the only thing keeping men from just ending it all half the time.

[SouthernWhiteMan]

Asker, I agree. Today's women are horrible.

[Sasha0426]

@SouthernWhiteMan I’ve been horrible my whole life. Whatchu talking about? 🤣

[EmyyWolf]

@SouthernWhiteMan
Today’s women are horrible so you have to go touch a minor? 🧐🧐🧐🧐 HMMMM….
🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[EmyyWolf]

@coachTanthony
The asker literally said that all women are “leftovers”. What do you think women in Thailand are?
You’ve any idea how many men go to see those women?
Those women are BEYOND leftovers

[Asker]

@EmyyWolf Look at it this way, A lot of men are at the age where most women have been with at least one or 2 dudes before they come your way, so... if you know no matter what you're gonna be with someone experienced, you might as well go to a place where sex life is a cultural norm, rather then get stuck with someone who only ever viewed sex as a bargaining chip.

[EmyyWolf]

Wtf 😂😂😂?
So you rather choose a woman who f-ks over 3,000 men. Than an average woman who had f-ked 3 guys before you?
OK LOL 😂 😂😂 GO THERE YOU UGLY LOOKIN RAT. GO THERE. YOU DESERVE THOSE WOMEN. GO THERE 😂😂😂

[Asker]

@EmyyWolf At least the woman who fucked 3000 men isn't entitled.

[EmyyWolf]

https://youtu.be/4hosribePiA

[coachTanthony]

@EmyyWolf I was just addressing his "virginity issue" Go to Thailand and take care of it. I am not advocating anything else lol

[Daniela1982]

@EmyyWolf Just say Ho's and be done with it.

[EmyyWolf]

@Daniela1982
True lol. Why am I arguing with the main consumer of Porn lol 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Unit1]

That is my plan Coach!

[coachTanthony]

@Unit1 Exactly

[SouthernWhiteMan]

@EmyyWolf How many men have you been with?

[Unit1]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hFMTKroJRlM

Can't get there soon enough.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Are you actually trying or you just expect a vagina to fall on your penis? I ask because it's G@G... and you'd be surprised.

So where's the breakdown? You don't approach women, they don't say yes, you can't get the first date, don't know what to do once you get there?

How many women have you asked out this month? If it's less than 10 you're wrong. That'd only be one every other day and if you're single that's a pretty low bar.

Now let's go through your quotes:

"Still a virgin at 33? Something must be wrong with you."

Well, I've never known a man like that, so I can't speak truth on that, but you aren't wearing a scarlet V or anything right? So they don't know.

"The only reason any woman would give you the time of day is to use you as an ATM"

Yep, lot of women are like that. Lot of men would only talk to a woman to get laid. There's good ones and bad ones out there, same as everyone else. Just gotta roll the dice and see.

"You see them? They know, and they are mocking you"

Again, provided you took the scarlet V off, how would they know? You're not consequential enough for everyone to be whispering about behind your back. That's just narcissism talking. Persecution subtype, but still narcissism. Or hell, maybe THAT particular group of women actually ARE mocking you. Okay, so what? If it happens all the time as you claim then it obviously didn't kill you, so don't ask them out ask someone else.

"You missed your chance when you were younger, all that's left is everyone else's leftovers"

Bro you're 33, you're just as much the leftovers as "she" is.

"No one will ever love you and you will die alone"

Yep. Also a possibility. Same possibility all of us face. Again, you're not special. You know what drastically increases that probability? Never asking anyone out.

[SnowedIn]

Brilliant as always

[BoopBoopBeep]

@SnowedIn Thanks buddy!

[Anonymous]

Because you've wired your brain to think that way. It's habitual. You have wired yourself to habitual get the results you are getting. If you're going to change your results, you're going to have to change you because they are your results.

The truth is and you'll probably reject this idea or not hold on to it because it isn't apart of you but if you think, feel, and act differently you will change your whole life and pretty fast.

The only difference between 1 persona and another is their thinking.

by the way most people don't earn 100k. Just get on tinder. Nothing is wrong with you. You have the same genius in you that anyone and everyone else has. You just have no direction. Nobody's ever taught you that it's your wiring not you. That's literally everyones problem. They think they are who they who. It's their wiring. We aren't are wiring nor our names. You can change both. If I were you I'd spend all my time learning how that's possible. But I've already told you. If you stop thinking, feeling, and acting in harmony with the old you, you'll change into something new. But it's just wiring, new wiring; new results. But it's easy to not do. It's easy to keep feeding the old wiring or feed both and never decay the old one. You're gonna attract and gravitate to whatever your wiring is in harmony with.

[mstbooblover]

That's not an easy problem to solve. I mean the psychological side. On the practical side, and assuming you're hetero, maybe you should just pay a visit to some friendly and comprehensive prostitute. They know about how to handle all kinds of intimate situations. Don't be shy, and just tell her.

Otherwise, concerning what people say about being a virgin at 33, they're only worth a shoulder shrug. None of their business, and many things in life happen only because of particular circumstances. For instance, who are you attracted to? Guys or girls? Or just to neither? We have no guilt nor any responsibility for having particular feelings. We nevertheless should learn to take them into account, in order to know ourselves better, which will help taking the right course of actions. Best wishes.

[DiegoO]

You're focusing on the wrong question. I am not virgin but I literally only had sex 1 time.

That one night stand experience show me that sex is like drinking a bottle of wine. What makes it memorable is not the quality of the wine, is the quality of the company you're sharing it with.

Wait on that company, but first ask yourself: why?

Virginity is meaningless, sex is meaningless by itself. Conecting with others at a romantic, friendship, family level: it's everything.

I urge you to get an appointment with a therapist. Is not that you can't have sex or a romantic relation. You're in the capacity of it, but I believe there's something rooted in you that is blocking your capacity.

[inhua]

there's a lot of politically correct answers here

and yes there is something wrong with you according to the gynocentric social order because apparently only creeps, losers, incels, cowards, ugly guys, broke guys, disabled guys don't get girlfriends and if you don't have a girlfriend you are one of the above even if you are technically not one of the above

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Having dated women from 20 to 34, I can tell you that women your age are not "leftovers".
No offense to younger women, but women in their 30s are much better partners in my opinion.
All the good ones aren't taken. In fact, most of them are probably in the same position you are

[WanderingLoveWizard]

The younger ones definitely fuck harder though. I'll give them that

[_SillyShoes_]

Anxiety.

Intrusive thoughts (maybe due to OCD) .

You should ge this checked - go to therapy - it will help.

It's more than likely you have one of those attachment styles that push people away and you don't even know about it - it usually only evidently shows up once you're in a relationship and a switch is flipped and a lot more is clear then.

Probably some version of an avoidant attachment style, I'd guess.

[Lis-the-librarian]

Cause you don't have a woman.

That is the core of your problem.

Take a year to get fit. Just workout and eat dinner at somewhere pub or a grill place on every Friday, you will get approached once you are fit enaugh.

Don't feel pressured to sleep with them if you don't feel like it.

[AliciaLee]

You will meet the right woman, who is special to you and you are special to her. There is no set time to lose virginity. There is nothing wrong with you. If you like someone ask them out and things will begin to happen.

[Drumlin2001]

Been there. Was a virgin till 35, was always my own worst critic. But it's also easy to hide behind that. It's an excuse. You can get whatever you want if you're prepared to work hard at it and let yourself be vulnerable with people. By 40 I was engaged with 2 kids. Your life could turn around quickly

[Anonymous]

You are focusing on pleasure over purpose. Are you financially free? do you know why you're here? do you know your life purpose? what is your life mission? retiring early? own place?

What you have mentioned are perfect distractions to keep you exactly where you are. When you know why you are here then everything else will be easier.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You are having those thoughts because it's seriously not normal to be a virgin in your 30's.

We are biologically programed to start having sex once we reach puberty; your puberty started over 2 decades ago and your body still hasn't experience what is biologically required to experience as a sexual being.

[Daniela1982]

Sex is not to commence until you are married. So if you don't get married until you are 35 why is that not normal? Sex before marriage is known as fornication, according to God anyway.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@Daniela1982: I understand but that's not he asked.

He asked about thoughts that are affecting him and I addressed his question as to why.

[madhatters4]

relationship and issues having them can stir up insecurities and vulnerabilities. whether we want them to or not interpersonal relationships are one of the most significant sources of both stress and happiness in human existence.

[Sasha0426]

People made the dating world mentally exhausting. It’s why I don’t even bother. It just makes you depressed and mentally exhausted.

[Anonymous]

Cause they are true!

Besides maybe you need someone to help! Maybe a mistress who will take your virginity and anal virginity

You need to get desperate stink from you!

[Anonymous]

I am turning 29 soon and never had a real girlfriend. I only had sex exactly one time when I was 20 during a weekend fling with a 16 year old girl who was also supposedly a virgin. I haven't even so much kissed a woman since. I get your feeling about getting everyone else's leftovers.

[EmyyWolf]

PEDOPHILE

[Opinion Owner]

@EmyyWolf LOL, we were less than 4 years apart in age.

[Sasha0426]

Actually, she’s right. That’s considered statutory rape. Even if the girl consented, it’s against the law because she’s a minor. In the eyes of the law, you took advantage of minor.

[EmyyWolf]

@southernwhiteman
16 is HighSchool.
How did you have access to a HighSchooler?
🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
We seriously need the lethal injection for this crime in the U. S

[Asker]

@Sasha0426 Gotta love technicalities huh?

[Sasha0426]

@Asker I have no energy to explain why having sex with minors is wrong to adults. If your parents didn’t teach you, then I can’t help. They’re the ones who failed you 🤷‍♀️

[EmyyWolf]

@Sasha0426
That poor child. Probably traumatized by now.

How much you want to bet that this Pred looks like the Preds in the Chris Hansen Show… ?
https://youtu.be/Ng56nBalyY0
@southernwhiteman

A 16yo Should be with other 16yo. If she’s gonna be intimate she Should at least be with other 16yo. Not this creep!!

[Asker]

@Sasha0426 You would be surprised how many high schoolers lie about their age to have sex with college age students or even older.

[Asker]

@Sasha0426 But ultimately I agree, its a boundary that must be respected... doesn't mean it isn't commonly broken, especially outside the US.

[Pohjolan]

You need to figure out your main issue and fix it.

For me it was not having visited a dermatologist sooner.

Now I'm paradoxically a tall, handsome, well endowed, athletic guy with no sexual experience.

[captain_voidwalker]

I just learned to live with the fact that I'm going to die alone. Nothing can be done about it so no sense in wallowing in self pity. Look on the bright side you also won't die surrounded by useless assholes

[bingbongbangbung]

@EmyyWolf looks like someone is both jealous and racist to women in poorer countries that are hotter and have morals

[EmyyWolf]

Awwww another INCEL took offense to what I said AWWWWW 🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼

[bingbongbangbung]

Awwww another ad honinem user took offense and is now self projecting to deflect the fact that they're jealous