What to do when boyfriend doesn’t want to claim you?

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t want to tell his friends and family about me because he claims he is private person. I too am a private person but I feel there’s a difference between being private and hiding your partner. He tell them I’m his assistant. I told him since your telling them I’m your assistant. We can just keep thing’s professional stop calling me babe, don’t come to my house anymore, and sex is off the table.

[ohsheeT]

I would say it goes a little bit deeper than that for him there's somebody else that he doesn't want them to know about you it's kind of like you're the second choice in a roundabout way

In real life we are all somewhat private people but when it comes to liking somebody loving somebody and you are one with each other then there's no reason why he has to keep you private as a matter of fact I would think that he would want to out you and let people know that way he's not bugged by anybody else there's a point in time no matter how private you are you have to be grown up and you have to do what your heart says and if you don't that means you're hiding something that you don't want somebody else to know I don't care how private you are there's just certain things that you don't keep private or are certain things that you do and having a friend in your life is not one of them not unless you're hiding it

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Did You Ever Watch This Television Show?

[HelpfulWoman]

Take a hint, you're not a serious relationship to him. Leave.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Red flag.

No guy who wants to keep a woman is going to hide his relationship with her from people.

There might be another girl he is seeing and he doesn't want you two finding out about eachother.

[Wonderingguyy]

Yeah that’s bs. He clearly has a problem in acknowledging that you’re his girlfriend. He may want to hide it for some reason, but you don’t deserve that, move on.

[BigDog1989]

I have a girl "friend", i haven't even told my parents i have. We're not dating, just a "friend"

[DerekC321]

That sucks. Insulting to you. I would move on.

[Danny_dan92]

Not a boyfriend is he?

[jahaims]

You embarrass him and he is a pussy

[DextroShade]

Sounds like you are a side chick.

[OddBeMe]

You’re the other woman.