My boyfriend wanted us to be physical while I wanted to save it until marriage. When we talked, he became angry and decided to break up. What should I do? (Page 2)

[Vegasrunner]

Seems odd. You shares your belief and he made his choice, women are always complaining about men not being honest, well he was honest with you and you got your result of your consequences. If there's so many men out there why not just go find another one that you respect and admire that's willing to wait until marriage for the onlything you have to offer.

[Anonymous]

You move on. If those are your values then keep them. Don’t expect him to conform to them. Sure you may not like it but your only other option is to give in unless he’s willing to accept it. Which I don’t think he is. This is something that’s joule have been discussed in the beginning.

[Dinklex3]

Move on. He’s clearly not right for you.

You both aren’t budging. If he wants sex before marriage and you don’t then that’s that.

Especially with that “ You care about your belief more than me” manipulative bull shit.

[Sabretooth]

You stick to your morals. You give in... You'll do whatever he wants--if he wants you to fuck a dog... You'll fuck a dog. I've seen this before. A guy says he doesn't believe in God... Yet, manages to convert her to Islam... He was abusive and controlling prior... So...

[Fireguy17]

stick to your beliefs.
Obviously having sex was more important to him than honoring your wishes.
You will find a like-minded person, so he actually did you a favor.
Now you won't constantly have that battle.

[Pyrofox]

This might rock your world but marriage doesn't mean much to men and guys in general. You are better off chasing someone in their late 50's than someone in their 20's if you want marriage first.

[Anonymous]

If he really loves you, he would be willing to wait. Having morals or being religious is not something you can bend for the sake of sex. It seems like he doesn't understand since he is making you feel guilty. Even though you said you really love him, I would drop him if I were you... he doesn't respect your decision enough..

[Sparkie460]

Good for you. It's your body and your choice. If he can't understand that then send him on his way. He's trying to manipulate you. If you let him manipulate you now, he will do it even more if you got married.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Move on, he's not the right one for you. You both obviously wan't something different in a relationship, end it for good before you do something stupid.

[Asker]

Thank you 😊

[TheSpaceGnome]

👍👍

[balyai]

He should respect your decision. If he doesn't it's a red flag. Cause that's what he's gonna do even in the future when you don't do what je wants. He's the one who wants to end the relationship and not you. Do remember that.

[Asker]

Yes I don't want to end it but he doesn't care it seems

[balyai]

Yeah, true. But don't avoid the red flag. It's a serious one

[madhatters4]

i think the solution to the problem has already occurred. if he isn't going to wait and you aren't going to have sex then you are an impasse.

[sheikalana]

LOL do yourself a favor and leave him. He doesn't have the right to be angry about that. It's your body and your decision. If two people do not want the same thing is just best if they break up.

[Alex-Snow]

Sorry to hear it. If he is unwilling to change and the same goes for you then maybe it just won't work out. Would you be ok with fooling around with oral sex or handjobs... he might be able to survive with those options?

[slatyb]

He doesn't respect your choice. Did he know you felt this way when you started dating?

[HelpfulWoman]

don't solve it. the man doesn't respect your views. and the trash took itself out for you.

[ProbablyClueless]

This isn't the kind thing that can be compromised on; you two just aren't compatible. There is no compromise to waiting until marriage to have sex.

[exitseven]

You have an impasse. You should not feel pressured to have sex and he should not pressure you. You should accept his position and break up with him.

[rising1138]

Stick to your guns girl. If that is what you TRULY DESIRE then I don't think you should compromise.

I'm not going to lie though, it is going to be difficult to find a guy who is willing to go along with that.

[Anonymous]

Doesn't matter.. if he can't respect your choice he ain't worth it
Also what does he mean by his choice?
To not get physical is a choice , to get physical ain't lol

[kamalravi25]

Seem like he is too impatient to get in to your pants.
Keep playing hard to get maybe you will learn more about his true intentions.