If your wife cheats on you one time, would you divorce her? What if it results in pregnancy? What if you are a white couple and the baby is 50% black?

[DWornock]

Should any poster attempt to make this question about race, you comment will be deleted and if you persist, you will be blocked.

[Adaeva]

I'm not a wife and I never will be a husband. Regardless, cheating one time is not a justification to divorce a wife. Even if it results in a pregnancy, a husband should not divorce his wife. After all, almost certainly, she was ovulating and selecting the best genes for her egg from an exceptionally attractive man. Of course, a husband will not like it. However, it is not a total loss, likely it will be a gain because the baby she gives her husband will be prettier, more dynamic, and smarter than a baby sired by the husband.

However, if the husband and wife are white, and the baby is 50% black then obviously the husband should divorce her. First, a white wife with a white husband that cheats with a black man has very poor judgement. Aside from the fact that people will judge her, everyone that sees the baby will know the husband is a cuckold.

[Rei13]

As the potential wife I would like to say that I would leave if I my husband cheated on me but I’ve never actually been in that situation in any of my relationships. It is easy to say that you would until it actually happens. The guys I’ve dated were not those kind of men and neither is my current boyfriend. I don’t think I would be able to forgive that kind of betrayal

[Fireguy17]

Yes and that is exactly what I did.
She was not nor ended up pregnant.

[normalice]

If she cheats she can go marry the guy she preferred.

[DWornock]

Seems to be reasonable, but she may not prefer the other guy.

[normalice]

She clearly did or she wouldn't have cheated with him. That's what that means.

[normalice]

@BarryLiverstone why are you asking me?

[DWornock]

@BarryLiverstone You didn't answer the question.

[DWornock]

In a sense, that may be true. However, he may have been an exceptionally attractive man that she wanted for a one-night stand. For example, if he was a movie star or some famous singer putting on a concert in the city you live in. For him, she is a one-time thing and she knows it is not possible to marry him.

[provokeesmokee]

Race and frequency of the hookups don't matter, the dishonesty and betrayal do.

I'd divorce a cheater, yes. I broke up with my first boyfriend because he cheated.

[DWornock]

So whether once or 100 times, to you it is the same?

[Spongebobssocks]

Yes ofcource he should leave and find a woman with human value

[Grovermint]

If I ever got cheated on, she's dead to me. We're through and I'm getting a paternity test on all kids.

[JesseP1nk]

Ofcourse i would divorce her. You want me look at her rest of my life like "That bit (h cheated on me. Will she do it again?"

[LiamJHayden]

Cheating is a betrayal of trust and a breaking of the vow. It is the end.

[Anonymous]

I would, and I did. Although she had been cheating with the guy for a while.

[Anonymous]

1 strike, she's out. No discussion. There is no excuse for this.

[tzdc21]

She cheats, it's over period.

[inhua]

if she cheats, she belongs to the streets