Do you miss your ex when you’re with your new partner?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

No , if you miss your ex then you shouldn’t be in a Néw relationship with someone else period , Not only are you wasting your time you are wasting your BF’s time as well. A Néw relationship is supposed to be you starting new , leaving all your past shit behind you including your exes and focusing on your new partner over everyone else , if your partner is not your top priority , then you shouldn’t be in a relationship with him period because you will not be able to give him what he deserves , by you missing your ex is going to push him away. When I date girls that constantly talk about their exes to me , those girls will no longer be by my side , basically it was nice knowing you , but not for a long time , you should never be a convenience to someone , The second you choose to be in a relationship with someone and you choose to commit to someone , you need to choose your partner over everyone else or your relationship will not survive. Don’t get me wrong but you will always have memories of your past , but out of respect for your partner , keep those mementoes to yourself , because it’s disrespectful to your partner if you are constantly talking about an ex period , if your ex was so great of a person, they wouldn’t be your ex period. Exempt them from your life

DiegoO · Accepted Answer

I miss what we had, but miss her... I can't say I knew her like I wanted, but yeah, I miss the moments we shared, just not her as who I get to know.

Would I like to know her in person? At this point I rather keep off. The memories remain, however I need to work on myself a lot and I honestly don't have the strength to deal with who she is as person, or who she might be.

I am not gonna go into much details. She is from the past and going back to her, means staying stuck there. Beside that I can't promise her anything. It's just pointless to even think of going back with my ex.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have not found anyone I wanna be with since breaking up last September and my ex and I are getting on the same page now so I will see what happens.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

I am single and I no longer miss my ex.

Pinay_ako · Answer

No. They’re in the past. I don’t move on to a new one if I’m still hung up on my last ex. It’s unfair for the new guy.

anonparrot1 · Answer

As soon as I met this most recent girl, I stopped missing my ex. Her looks and personality for me felt a better fit, like i’d found someone better. She was a lot more calmer than my erratic ex as well. Still were times I remembered memories but it was mostly regret on how bad I dealt with the breakup and my actions made her cry too.

Unfortunately the girl I’ve been seeing (coming up to 3 months) has decided to call it due to burn out, stress and she has nothing left to give right now. Could be an excuse but things were going really well, no issues. I dealt with this a lot better.

I’d probably say I miss this recent girl than my last ex of 10 months.

I’m just worried I’m not going to get over this one due to how great our time together was unless I meet someone even more incredible next time.

Meropatrick · Answer

If u feel this way then you were never in love with your new date. Once u love a person they fill the gap. Us humans we have small gaps in our life. Once filled no place for anything or Anyone else. Once u feel the yearning of someone in the past. Then u r not full filled with the present

femalepretzelmaker · Answer

I wish all my exes agreed to be my side chicks because I've been diagnosed with a rare sex addiction and I need a lot of sex and I don't think a single female can quinch my thirst.
Also I've been snipped so they wouldn't have to worry about having babies

xKayTea · Answer

No, because I make sure not to get into a new relationship until I am fully over my ex, as it is not fair on the other person.

kaylaS91 · Answer

I'll think of my ex on occasion as he's the one who I last did the same things with. I don't miss him though.

TipsyFr · Answer

Just my opinion but If I’m not over my ex it’s too early for me to be dating. The get over your ex with someone else just feels dirty to me.

solitarysoul · Answer

I wouldn't be with a new partner if i still miss my ex. This is putting your partner in a foolish position, and doing so is foolishness.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i am very much single... yeah i miss my ex goodness from time to time. good people are hard to forget

Nikki1989 · Answer

I am still friends with my exes, so I never miss them.

Bobbybopeep · Answer

No I didn’t get a partner until I was done done with my ex. I don’t use rebound. I just focus on myself for a while until I feel sparks again

Anonymous · Answer

if you do, you should be single and not in a relationship... that's not fair to your partner, even if they don't know you miss your ex. awful.

Starrrboy · Answer

No, once they're gone it's bye felicia lol... That probably happens when they're the one who called it off and left you so heart broken 🥺🥺 xD

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I missed the lifestyle I had with my old ex. But now I'm kinda over it.

ᴅᴀʀᴋ_ᴋɴɪɢʜᴛ_ · Answer

I only had long-distance conversations with people over the phone, other than that I didn't have a girlfriend, and I don't miss those who left, because sometimes it's better for them to leave.

Mangospacho · Answer

Nah. Never even gave my ex a thought especially after I was with someone new.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I wouldn't be with a new partner if i still miss my ex...

Anonymous · Answer

Hell no, she wouldn't be my Ex if I had any feelings for her

Anonymous · Answer

I'm currently single and have been for 2.5 years now. I don't miss my exGF at all. She wasn't a good person and has many issues to deal with.

Anonymous · Answer

I wish it was no but there is a guy I can’t forget. He was a jerk but I can’t get him out of my mind.

Jess_D · Answer

Oh dear god no!

theguywhoknows · Answer

No way, she was going down a dark road

Yannae · Answer

No. The new partner is the Upgrade.

TomMarks · Answer

No, never even a thought.

Nifrayu · Answer

I did for a while, but I got over it.

Lokiion · Answer

Single rn but nah I don’t

scooogy · Answer

Nah, my bed is the love of my life.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Nope, not at all.

sheikalana · Answer

Hell no.

Anonymous · Answer

Yess , He was treat me like a queen 🥲

OfDeath · Answer

No (filler)

dudeinohio · Answer

Never

Jupiter1 · Answer

Not at all

In_Trance · Answer

never

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely not

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