My boyfriend shames me in front of people, should I confront him? (Page 2)

[spartan55]

Who cares why he does it? Dump the fucker, he WILL NOT CHANGE.

[madhatters4]

you talk to him or you leave him. up to you but you absolutely shouldn't just let it happen

[Staximus]

You shouldn't work with your boyfriend, you're shitting in your own backyard. There's no reason why you can't laugh at some drunk person's stories. This guy sounds like an asshole.

[AimeeKyle]

Absolutely. That is disrespectful behavior…. and clearly bothers you (since you are asking the question).

[prakhindev92]

Not confront , you should leave him , if he did it once , he will do that again , and after few times you gonna confront him , he us gonna ask you what is wrong with you? 😂

[Fireguy17]

Move on and find someone who will treat you better.
This rarely improves and just gets worse.

[Sasha0426]

This is public humiliation. It’s a form of abuse. He’s doing it to feel powerful. Take his power away by leaving him.

[Alex-Snow]

Life is too short for that crap. Tell him to cut the shit. Maybe stop with sex for a bit.. he will get the message!

[Rouba99]

Well if that was me I would’ve left, shaming someone you love in front of people is bad and weird. If you did something wrong he could’ve told you when you both get home.. not in front of people

[OddBeMe]

No, throw an elbow. Shame him like a little boy and threaten to leave him for a black dude.

[Malwi93]

sounds suppressive and patronizing at the same time

[Elinnnor]

Yes, You should confront him, he doesn't seem to respect You in my opinion

[krin_m]

Dump him Someone who habitually behaves like that is not worth your energy!

[jimmy2]

Lol life so good you two in years from now laugh it up

[Suthain]

Confront him? Just dump his ass already.

[love_conquers_lust]

Confront. Ask why.

[Asker]

Asked him... he said "so you can learn", meaning he won't stop.

[love_conquers_lust]

Yeah? Did he also learn that customer didn’t say anything about remitting the money that they owed the bank? Has he learned that people have different tastes in humor? What, does he have a problem with his friend being drunk? That boy sounds like he wouldn’t get along with me, we’d probably clash.

[In_Trance]

Why do you put up with this shit?
Dump him

[Asker]

I don't know... to be honest, maybe I'm too invested in him.

[Mangospacho]

Don’t confront him. Leave him.

[LunarEclipse433]

Hell yes. He shouldn’t do that

[Luckycharms12]

His guy is a dick dump him