Do you think people over exaggerate their relationships on here?

[Anonymous]

I see people on here say they're in the perfect relationship, etc, but I feel like if it were really that great you wouldn't be on here bragging (is that the correct word?) about it? they're like "my husband is the best" "still going strong for X years and it's like we just met yesterday" "we have the perfect life" "we never fight, he's my best friend" "we have sex all the time, multiple times a day" how do you find time to have sex if you have like 4 small kids? lol. "i don't work, my husband is the only one that works" are you not struggling to keep afloat in this economy? stuff like that. like i get it, but some of these peoples answers just seem very unrealistic.

[Anonymous]

I personally just don’t care enough. What I noticed is that these are all separate comments, not one person endlessly bragging about perfection, which I think makes it more believable. To be clear, no relationship is perfect because as humans we are flawed and anyone who’s been with their partner for any real length of time knows better as well. I just think those individuals are shining a light on what aspect of their relationship they are happy about, and usually it’s just them commenting on a related topic where they feel that info has value, so why knock them for it? If they have great sex with their partner, lovely. If they don’t argue ever, good for them. Doesn’t make anything perfect though, and I know not to see a flawless couples photo and believe that it’s exactly that way behind the scenes.

[Nirmroth]

Having a perfect relationship is a far stretch. For some its out of a fairy tale book, unreachable and some are just happy that they have a partner were it simply just fitts like a puzzle piece.

[Anonymous]

I never noticed this