Would you hate it if your girlfriend/boyfriend "borrows" your clothes?

[Lisia]

My boyfriend likes it 🤷‍♀️ he thinks it's cute that I practically swim in his hoodies. As long as I don't "borrow" all of his clothes of course.

Almost every hoodie that he has was a present from me so y'know he can't really complain lol

I also like the oversized chill look to lounge around in at home. And his clothes just hit different I don't know why. Also he doesn't borrow mine 'cause he doesn't fit in my clothes. He wouldn't want to wear crop tops and stuff anyway.

I know lots of guys hate it, that's why I'm asking. For girls, yeah I don't know if that happens a lot lol.

Also for mods -> don't move this to "How do I look" - I'm not asking how I look.

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6 mo

Also I wonder, I usually make a bow with the drawstrings of the hoodie I'm wearing (my bird took out the one I made 🥲) does anyone else do this or am I alone lol?

[WilmaReportu]

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[Lisia]

Lol wtf this site has all the different categories.. not everyone likes to talk about global problems and constant negativity. Good for you that you're an activist but you should maybe go try to make an actual change in the world except typing about it and doing nothing on the internet. Thanks x

[WilmaReportu]

I understand, honey. There's a lot of competition on Instagram, so you have to come here for ego gratification.

[Lisia]

What? I don't even have instagram 😭 Why are you so mad?

[WilmaReportu]

I'm not mad, I just don't need to be told how to categorize Instagram rejects.

[RedInnocent68]

But you’d get loads of gratification if you did! 😉 Most not as charming and witty, though 🤔

[Lisia]

Bruh never used it lol so you're wrong.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Mine used to give his clothes to me too. He was XXL I am S. He liked seeing me in his clothes.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Oh and he wasn’t overweight, he just had an athletic body and very broad shoulders and I once bought him XL and it ripped on his shoulders 😂

[Lisia]

Hahaha yeah my boyfriend is skinny and is tall with broad shoulders so he wears a L to XL

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Sweet 💖

[Summeroflove]

The thing is boundaries. Lol I don’t mind giving someone something if they appreciate it and ask for it. But just stealing something is wrong and technically illegal.

If someone doesn’t like their stuff being touched then don’t touch it. If someone doesn’t mind then it is what it is.

[Worst]

Nah, that shits cute as fuuuuck

[Lisia]

What if she steals all of your clothes

[Worst]

the more clothes for her to look sexy in, the better

[Lisia]

You think hoodies look sexy?

[Worst]

absolutely

[ProbablyClueless]

It's more cute than anything else, but it can also be pretty irritating. Especially if I need my favorite hoodie or something, and she's stolen it. I'm pretty much guaranteed to get the thing back covered in nail polish, used makeup and soaked in the aroma of floral scented soaps.

[Leowolf13]

I think it’s cute and I’m fine with it as long as I didn’t plan on wearing it that day. But what is mine is hers! I’m just lucky to have her!

[Lisia]

Yeahhh exactly what's his is mine lol

[Andres77]

I enjoyed it when my ex wife or girlfriend wore my clothes. Now my daughters wear some of my clothes. It’s pleasing to me. It’s like they want my constant hugs.

[Andres77]

Is that a sun conure?

[Lisia]

No a green cheek conure 😊

[Andres77]

Is she fiesty and aggressive?

[Lisia]

Nahh only has an attitude when she doesn't get her way sometimes like a child

[Andres77]

Our sun conure became a beast. Attacking everyone in the house. Now she stays in her cage 24/7

[Lisia]

Damn- we had ours when she was a featherless baby tho so she grew up here. Maybe your sun conure is molding?

[Andres77]

We’ve had her for 13 years. She became mean about 7 years ago.

[Andres77]

She actually flew outside when she was two years old. It took about 18 hours to get her to come back again. Long story

[Lisia]

Damn

[Andres77]

It was a Saturday afternoon. We usually left the door open to her cage. There was a perch on top of it during the day she would crawl on top of the cage and sit on the porch. That way she could interact with us a bit more as we walked by and said hello, and gave her treats, we had just come back from buying groceries and the garage door was open and the inside door was open someone drop something and that noise start of the bird and you flew straight outside and I’ve been to a tree. That was about 4 o’clock in the afternoon.. we spent the next eight hours outside, calling to Rebecca to come down from the tree. All she would do was fly to another tree and never came back down to us about midnight we gave up.
Around 5 o’clock the next morning I took the dog out I called out to Rebecca, and I heard a squawk a long way away. I put the dog away and went looking for her. We lived out in the country she was in the neighbors yard 150 m away when I saw her she was much lower in a tree only about 15 feet up.

[Andres77]

I want my neighbor up at about 6 AM so he would know why we were in his front yard talking to his tree. Then I ran home and got my wife and a towel and a doughnut. My wife and I came back and she called to the bird and after about 30 minutes the bird flew down to about 10 feet off the ground. My wife got on my shoulders, and she continued to talk to the bird and offer her pieces of the donut Until the bird was finally within reach, she grab the bird with the towel. Give her the donut I walked back home.

[Lisia]

Yeah I think she might've wanted to stay outside. My bird loves the outside too so I bought a harness for her so she could fly around outside and stuff 'cause without it she'd be gone too

[Andres77]

That’s cool

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nope I wouldn't mind at all, I'll purposely put some cologne on it so she gets the full hoodie and jacket experience lol

[Lisia]

Wish my boyfriend did that 😩🤚

[ChicoFromThe305]

Tell that man you want the full hoodie experience and to give it to you with his cologne on 😂

[SportySpock]

I agree with your man. I love it when she wears my clothes, though they swallow her whole.

My lady has my shorts, a few hoodies and t-shirts, and my football and baseball jersey. And I know I'm not getting them back any time soon haha

[LunarEclipse433]

Comfy is comfy. But you also look great in them. I think most women feel more comfortable in oversized clothing for lounging

[Lisia]

Trueee!

[aceleon]

no i wouldn't but my style of clothing would be not that suitable for a girl they could most likely only take my button downs and turtle necks for wearing in the house.

[KostasKouvalis]

Why would I hate that? I think that's really cute actually, as long as it's not underwear or unwashed socked.

[Lisia]

Socked?

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah, socks. Like socks that you wear on your feet.

[Lisia]

Yeah no I would never wear his socks.. boxers is another thing tho 👀

[KostasKouvalis]

You'd wear his boxers?😳

[Lisia]

Yeah. With my underwear underneath it

[KostasKouvalis]

What? 😂 Why would you do that?

[Lisia]

I look good in 'em

[KostasKouvalis]

😂😂😂😂

[Still-alive]

Its cute and a bit sexy. it has our scent too so you're always smelling us while wearing it hehe

[Lisia]

I sometimes steal fresh ones lolol 😅

[Still-alive]

well then when he wears it he has your scent too ;)

[Lisia]

Trueee he loves that hahah

[Still-alive]

I bet your smell drives him wild sometimes hehe

[glennos89]

I love it when my girlfriend wears my T-shirts as a dress. It looks a little bit like a very short dress when she is only wearing a string beneath it.

It's so sexy when girls do that 🤤🤤🤤

[love_conquers_lust]

Nope. Took it as a compliment. Neat bird. Had a cockatiel, they’re very sociable.

[Lisia]

Aw cute!

[love_conquers_lust]

Oh sure. They’re real cute when leave droppings all over your shoulder.

She liked to nuzzle up to our heads and preen our hair. She would also lower her head whole we scratched the top. When she was really comfortable, she’d get poofy and stand one one leg grinding her beak and squeaking at herself.

[Lisia]

My bird doesn't poop on us, luckily 😅 we hand tamed her so we also learned her to fly off of us to poop somewhere else

[love_conquers_lust]

How’d you manage that? That would have been very useful instead of draping a towel over our shoulder where she perched.

[Lisia]

She starts walking backwards every time she wants to poop so I started putting her on the floor when I saw that so I could directly clean it up

[love_conquers_lust]

We only had about 3 seconds forewarning. Our’s hunkers down, gets this crevice down her feathers towards the mid section, poofs out, and them plop.

[elizamichale1]

I usually wear my boyfriend's shirts n he likes it but he never wore anything of mine

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Not really. I mean of course it's always natural to be annoyed if it always happens and to make sure it doesn't get stretched out

[Lisia]

Usually the girl is smaller so stretching out would be a difficult task 😅

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It's not necessarily their body by itself that's gonna stretch it. If the torso of the shirt reaches her knee, her knee can stretch it if she squats down

[Lisia]

That's true

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't mind to a degree. There are maybe one or two I would prefer not to be nabbed like that just as I wear them often myself but otherwise I would be completely okay with it. And I do agree that it looks adorable and that. I think you may be alone with the drawstrings.

[AydenHazor]

I don't mind at all, I think girls are cute in my borrowed clothes. Besides, typically they like not only the warmth and comfort, but being able to smell boyfriend in it. From experience, often if they borrow it it becomes theirs.

[MikeTheBartender]

They tend to never give them back so I wouldn't say "borrow", but no, it really doesn't bother me.

[TalkWithoutSpeaking]

Nope, it's all good. As long as she doesn't stain it beyond repair 😂

[bowenw]

It doesn't bother me if she can find something that isn't way to big.

[XXblack88]

I wouldn't mind if he could fix in them lol most guys are bigger then their female counter parts.

[pickles77]

I have a few that I really like and wear all the time so I’d be kind of disappointed if she “borrowed” it and never gave it back.