Does anyone else hate being an adult like I do?

[Anonymous]

I am not getting the benefits of being an adult. Just about all my peers are married, many with kids. Meanwhile, I never even had a real girlfriend. People are moving on in life while I am not progressing. I also still live at home under my mother's wing. I am hardly getting by. I have bills now and people have higher expectations of me. I haven't had sex in 8 years since I lost my virginity. Life sucks.

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6 mo

Also, I am becoming more and more unattractive to women as I age. Teen girls are now off limits.

[Anonymous]

First you gotta stop complaining on here and actually go out, make the effort, expand your strict standard. If you keep sulking and being negative, you’re not gonna attract anyone, people are attracted to confidence and positivity even if you have to fake it to make it.

[Anonymous]

Looking at the comments I realize u make your own life miserable at least when it comes to dating. You want a purely virgin woman because you lack experience, but that narrows your options way down and it’s not like you’ve got much to offer right now anyway to be so picky.

[Opinion Owner]

Lacking a romantic past means she’s never been with a man, dating or otherwise, meaning she is a virgin. That’s the entire emphasis.

[Opinion Owner]

Sooo, a virgin. Good luck with that.

[Nikki1989]

No, life is an amazing adventure. Embrace it.

[Blueeyes81]

Somedays.