Guy friend spoils me a lot and i'm so happy. It feels like a special connection?

[Ofoceansbeaches1]

For context, we are really super close. I've witnessed him dating other people but he tells me he likes the person but he doesn't love the person. But with me, i feel it's a different story. He spoils me a lot. Whenever we see each other, he often buys me food or brings me food. When i ask something from him, he really brings it coz i ask. It may be platonic but the love i feel is strong. I miss him when i dont see him for a long time. It literally feels like i don't have a partner in crime without him. He has been my shoulder to cry on when i went through hard times. It feels like i am emotionally attached to him. And it seems to be the same for him. He has told me he has never laugh as much as when we are together with his other friends. He even contemplated relocating because im in another city. We keep on visiting each other's cities. He also has friends in my city but i just get the feeling he'll miss me when im not around. He literally became dramatic on my birthday and told me i meant a lot to him. My question is, is this normal? To feel so strong for something platonic? He is also bisexual but i find him often glancing in my chest area often when we meet. I'm a bit confuse actually because we are too close and we seem to lighten up when in each other's company. So, on one hand he once told me im like a sister but at the same time we are too close lol

[Anonymous]

Just because he is supper nice to you doesn’t mean he likes you. I have plenty of male friends, they are straight by the way, when we were living close to each other, all you have explained in here, were all things we do for each other. We always got each others back, we spend for each other. Since I was a girl between all of them, I helped them understood their girl problems, and we had open communication.
I dress well, and provocative, I know was safe around them and their comments were quiet open as well, that didn’t bother me, and I was always safe around them. No one touch me inappropriately, no touching below the waist, or anywhere that will insinuate something.


I’m thinking maybe you’re not used to have platonic male friends who are gentlemen, and not catch feelings. I’m from the Caribbean they F** around, but that’s the relationship I had with them. If you were raised in this American western culture, I know where you’re coming from…! The insecurity involved for that to even happen between either gender without catching feelings is rare. 😏😏

[Daffotul]

confusing but maybe you should believe what he said no one romantically wants to be called a sister

[Billlewis]

One of the most wonderful things a guy can do is to spoil a woman whom he has absolutely no chance of having sex with, in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

That's not normal in my opinion and he fits the description of a Simp.

[WhitneySnow]

I think he kinda likes you. And vice versa.

[Anonymous]

So you friend zoned a good man, got it.

[DreamLife7]

He doesn't like u