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Am I being controlling or over reacting?


My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. We both work full time and have a 2 year old. Took off for Thanksgiving together and have been talking about doing a vacation that week. He said we could go to tenessee and get a cabin with out little one or Puerto Rico. I was super excited- then he said never mind he wanted to stay here and just relax. And I said well my sister can come babysit our little one and we can have a vacation and he said he didn’t want to because we went to turkey in June for vacation. So not necessary. I was upset. But whatever, 3 days later he said he wanted to go on a guys trip with his 2 best friends the week of Thanksgiving. First he said Colorado and I said okay fine quality time with his guys no problem. Then he said he wanted to go somewhere else with them- Puerto Rico or costa Rico. I was NOT comfortable with that at all. His friends and him are bad influences around each other. He also said that he wouldn’t let me go with my friends if I wanted to which is a double standard- don’t want to go anyway bc I’m not single and feel I should take my SO to have fun as well. Am I wrong to be upset and feel like my boundaries are being disrespected?

Am I being controlling or over reacting?
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