What are some rules a husband has to follow in a female led relationship?

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These are female led relationships i think. Do you have like these some rules?

carenina · Accepted Answer

Ah, female-led relationships (FLRs)! The dynamics in these relationships can be as varied as the couples themselves, but there are a few common 'rules' or guidelines that often pop up. Just remember, every relationship is unique, so these are more general pointers rather than one-size-fits-all rules.

Respect and Communication: This is the bedrock of any relationship, but in an FLR, it's especially crucial for the husband to respect his partner's lead.
Support Her Decisions: In an FLR, the woman typically takes the lead in decision-making. For the husband, this means supporting her choices and trusting her judgment, even if it requires setting aside his own preferences at times.
Share Household Responsibilities: FLRs often challenge traditional gender roles, so it's common for the husband to take on more household duties like cooking, cleaning, or caring for kids, if they have any.
Emotional Labor: Emotional labor – like being in tune with her needs, being emotionally available, and providing support – is often expected more from the husband in these relationships.
Acknowledging Power Dynamics: Understanding and acknowledging the power dynamic in the relationship is key. This means the husband accepts that his wife has the primary authority, and he respects and follows this structure.
Personal Growth and Autonomy: While the wife may be the lead, it’s important for the husband to maintain his own hobbies, friendships, and personal growth. A healthy FLR isn’t about losing your identity but rather complementing each other’s strengths.
Intimacy According to Preferences: Intimacy in an FLR might differ from traditional expectations.

Remember, these 'rules' are not about one person being superior to the other; they're about finding a balance that works uniquely for both partners, where the woman’s leadership is a mutually agreed-upon and fulfilling aspect of the relationship. 🌟

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A_Bell · Accepted Answer

A relationship isn't a leader-follower thing, it's a partnership.

Each person should take the lead in some component in a fair division of responsibility that matches skills, opportunities and preferences.

Since we are spawning little duplicates of ourselves, it makes sense that I focus on raising them and being primarily in charge of running the household.

He makes a great living as an engineer, so it makes sense for him to maximize his earning potential for the family. Despite what most women claim, homemaking is much easier than professional work (I used to work in a law office among other places) so taking on things like shopping during off hours (early afternoon) or bill paying just fits.

I also do contract work for my mom's law firm on the side for extra money when I can.

Together we work together for the betterment of the entire family and not just one of us who thinks they must be in charge.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

I've certainly never heard of this nonsense until now.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

Rules? I don't like the sound of that... but I think I understand what you are saying.

There is no link... so not sure what you are referring to.

I'm a house husband, I brought in equal to the relationship, my wife brings in the bacon now and she brought the kids, so she does lead a lot.

Rules of life? Communicate in love, do your share, communicate well, be considerate, be fun and surprising to keep interest, say yes a lot or yes and, be understanding... it's not all roses... there are stormy days... but those make way for better roses in days ahead.

Always stock up on chocolate, that's a rule.

Fuel up the car so honey doesn't run out of gas or take extra time getting to work. (be thoughtful)

Be available by phone and in attention as much as possible, communicate well.

Plan and be flexible to change

Enjoy what you have, it's going to change... that's life. Hopefully changes for the better.

Enjoy the good times while you've got them and keep them rolling if you can...

Love the lord they god with all your heart and all your mind.

Stock up on chocolate...

abc3643 · Accepted Answer

Why are you asking this question

I won't say have a specific rule, but I will say heuristic

Without babying the husband (unless he's into that), simply treat him like a calm but confident mother would to her son of about 10.

Now, I have to admit, if the man isn't into being led, there's going to be problems. So for this relationship to work, you are going to need a guy who is submissive or at worst easy going so he only becomes assertive when there's trouble and his male instincts kick in to protect your family.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

In such a situation, a man's highest duty is to escape.

AviatorTom · Answer

There is only one rule... Do whatever she says.

Anpu23 · Answer

Ultimately its on the couple. But some common ones are:

No masturbating (possibly long term chastity cage)

Chores, cleaning the house, laundry, dishes, cooking etc

Any porn is her choice, at her whim.

Possibly a minimum income for her leisure on top of bills.

He must build and maintain a proper physique. A regular workout rutine, that maybe tracked by a fitness app.

Sone form of remote discipline device such as a Dream Lover 2000, Pavlok or some such must be worn and kept charged.

Possibly a phone app that gives her access to GPS, or other data

Just remember always sane, safe and consensual. Even in a long term BDSM relationship a sub always has the right to safe word out.

AmeerX · Answer

If it's female led then she controls most things and initiates things like where you want to go, what are you going to wear. Your clothing style. Wife checks him out. It's not going to be him telling her to how beautiful she is all the time. It's going to be her praising him. Also, she needs to make sure she is providing for the relationship. Main sacrifice is going to be her and her stakes are going to be high

DextroShade · Answer

A female led relationship is a disaster in the making.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Every one I’ve seen, the wife is clearly not very happy and nothing the man does is good enough to meet the amount of work she does to make the money for the family. Long term I’ve never seen them work.

JacobJordan · Answer

wife response: can't imagine that would go well for people men are generally more dominant than women so those relationships deteriorate quite rapidly

slatyb · Answer

Whatever rules the couple agrees to. It's all role-play. Adults can't be punished for breaking rules unless they want to be.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I don’t want a relationship that isn’t equal so I don’t know the answer to this

Anonymous · Answer

The first and highest priority for a man in such a relationship is to get a good divorce lawyer, and then of course to follow the lawyer's guidance on how to disolve the marriage as quickly as possible.

exitseven · Answer

You can have an opinion but it has to be the same opinion that she has,

SolitarySolace · Answer

Life is already "happy wife happy life" so aren't all relationships female led?

syncheart · Answer

If the woman is completely in control, my life would be miserable.

SmallWiener · Answer

Ohh the woman is the Boss in all things even when the man is allowed to cum. Man have to wear chastity cage in an FLR

Anonymous · Answer

Women don't lead relationships they abuse and terrorize.

Anonymous · Answer

I keep the key and the cage only comes off when i say, usually after the bull visits.

Joker_ · Answer

@Worst knows something about a rule 35 was it?

Willoughby23 · Answer

He has to eat ass, lick feet and give clumpkins. And let her screw around with other guys.

Anonymous · Answer

Can women enlighten me on something if y'all want a tall guy to be with, why do you want to act like the boss lmao.

ethansf · Answer

I don't think women or men should "lead" a relationship. Love and respect.

Raaj4you · Answer

There are no rules in a husband-wife relationship.

Chthou95 · Answer

The relationships already fucked if the woman is leading

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I don't know I've never been in a female led relationship

Lostinthisworld94 · Answer

I am a good leader but if she would be better than me why not

Anonymous · Answer

Didn't even think relationships like this exist

jahaims · Answer

No one leads in a healthy relationship

KrakenAttackin · Answer

You mean before the divorce?

Miristheiss · Answer

He isn't a man so who cares.

sheikalana · Answer

I didn’t even know that was a thing.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Sounds kinda silly NGL..

Tim2nice · Answer

Just do what the wife says I suppose.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Sit down and shut up.

ThrillSeeker01 · Answer

He should do what she likes.

Crankor · Answer

What's your idea of this type of relationship?

renodnol32 · Answer

Whatever rules the wife has set.

Alex8736 · Answer

Are you talking about role play?

dolemite58 · Answer

female led? sounds like a simp

BLP11520 · Answer

Is this where the man is submissive?

Anonymous · Answer

Be sure to cheat. A LOT!

Joshgag2000 · Answer

Everything should be equal

whistlingwh0res · Answer

jackass following skank

MaxUsefull · Answer

This relationship is doomed to fail

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Absolutely zero

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