I remember two guys that seemed to have flawless images in public turned out to be angry micro managers that got aggressive when procedures were not followed to the T. As somebody that was always judged for unimportant reasons by my family, I flee like a rabbit from people who have micromanaging issues in their relationships with women. One turned out to be far more evil than I could ever imagine so my decision to follow the signal I saw was right.
I also believe a lot of people end up in abusive relationships when they try to establish the relationship on morally flawed grounds, such as an affair, or a transactional gold digging exchange, not knowing they will set themselves up for physical violence once they marry for money etc...
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