Should I feel bad for having feelings while my partner is grieving? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2023-12-09T13:48:22Z

My partner just lost his mum n I’m trying to be there but he keeps hurting my feelings like he wanted to see his friends he didn’t want to see me, he only sees me for like a hour so he can see his friends I said it makes me feel hurt because I’m there for him all year round when they aren’t. He’s phoning me screaming at me calling me selfish a rat and a burden. I already have mental health and self worth issues so it’s triggered it a lot and I can’t stop crying n he’s making me feel like my feelings are invalid because of his grief and it’s making me feel guilty like am I in the wrong?

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No you should your feelings are valid

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  Have you talk to him about how you feel
  
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