I entered into relationship with girl who hasn't moved on from her past relationship, and she sometimes tell me that she misses him, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

They were in 10 year relationship and broke off. After a month we entered into relationship but she isn't able to open up emotionally yet and says sometimes that she misses him. What should i do i am completely confused. She respects me and she sees me as potential partner but is struggling moving on from past.

[Anonymous]

Think about it, she was with the other guy for 10 years; nearly 1/3 of her life. That is a long time to be with someone, it’s like being married. She knows all of his quirks, habits, and his routines. Picture it; She knows that by the time she cooks breakfast in the morning, he’s pouring himself coffee. Now, she makes her breakfast and the coffee maker isn’t even turned on. Every night she would hear him snoring, but now the nights are silent.

Breaking up is a form of loss. And she is grieving. She is grieving the things that were, and the things that will not be. You have 2 choices: you can move on and find someone else who is truly ready to be in a relationship, or you can stay with her and accept the fact that you both rushed into this new relationship.

[jennifer_bloom]

I find a guy can get my loyalty by showing eagerness and if there is no curiosity or attraction it’s cause the guy lacks back up initiative on his end. If a guy is attentive and innocent, I will bond with him unless someone else is in the picture.

[dudeinohio]

I'd dump her. She's not ready for a new relationship

[Asker]

I like her and unable to do si

[Asker]

*do so

[dudeinohio]

Ok. Good luck.

[sheikalana]

Is not wroth it to be in a relationship with someone who still has someone else in their mind. You need to let her go and move on. That's toxic.

[Al_Musafir]

That's your cue. Leave her.

[Fanfare690]

Move on from her

[Asker]

But I like her and dont want to abandon her

[Fanfare690]

Can't save everyone