Girls, If given the opportunity, would you like to chat with a guy who bullied your boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

So say you could talk to a guy who bullied your boyfriend when they were kids, would you do it? Would you want to see his side of things or just see what kind of guy he is?

I used to be friends with a guy when I was a kid, he bullied me at some point but I got over it and we are friends on FB, and I was wondering what a girlfriend might think about that, if she might want to talk to him at some point out of curiosity

[Anonymous]

Well my bf’s bully was his dad. They don’t even talk anymore and I don’t even want to get involved bcs his dad is a piece of work.

[Asker]

Yeah if his personality sucks then why bother!

[Opinion Owner]

He was physically, verbally and emotionally abusive. It makes sense why my boyfriend would end up cutting him out of his life. Of course there’s a part of me that’s curious about his dad, but I know there’s nothing I can say that would get his dad to admit/apologize for what he did to my boyfriend

[Asker]

I had a bully that treated me bad too but thankfully it wasn't my dad, that must be tough :(

What kinds of things are you curious about?

[Opinion Owner]

Aw man that’s horrible, have you gotten some closure from that whole experience?

I guess I’m just curious about whether or not his dad knows how toxic he is towards his children. Based on the stories I’ve heard tho, his dad was a narcissist abuser, he never saw himself as being in the wrong…

[Asker]

Kinda, I've seen him around town and we are friends on Facebook, we're cool now, he still acts like an asshole a bit, like your boyfriend's dad I think he is also a narcissist lol

If you had a chance to chat with him, like say you got stuck on elevator, what would you say to him?

[Nikki1989]

I don't have anything to do with immature people.

[sheikalana]

My husband used to be the bully.