In the past I went through a situation where the guy I was dating, asked for my friend's phone number while I was in the bathroom. She told me as soon as he asked her, like she went into the bathroom and told me. The current boyfriend I have knows about all this and the hurt that I went through because of it. I asked him if he would do that, like in asking my friend (s) for their number if I was in the kitchen or something and he said, no he wouldn't do that. I asked him why, and he said because she could easily tell go and tell me about it since she told me about the first guy. He also told me that he wouldn't do that because he's "a good guy." I felt like he could've said an answer Iike "I wouldn't do that because Im with you and I love you" or something like that, but he didn't. I told him I felt like he could've responded a different way and he said that it doesn't matter what he said because he wouldn't cheat on me. Should I be weary of his responses to me? Does it seem valid to you that he wouldn't cheat? What do you think about him saying he wouldn't ask for my friend's number because she could tell me about it? Am I crazy for overthinking this?
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That is sketchy as hell what your boyfriend said. I totally get why you're weirded out by his response. When you directly asked him if he would do what your ex did, he should have just been like "no way, I would never do that to you."
The fact that he brought up that your friend would tell you, and that he's a "good guy" is a red flag. It's like he's thinking more about not getting caught than actually respecting your feelings. Any decent boyfriend would shut that idea down immediately and reassure you, not come up with excuses.
I'd definitely keep my eyes more open with this dude. Pay attention to how he interacts with other girls too, see if anything seems off. Maybe even see what your friend thinks of him if you trust her opinion. This kind of thing could be nothin', but better safe than sorry when it comes to your heart ya know?
Don't feel crazy for picking up on this - your intuition is probably right. Just watch him close and see how it plays out. If any other weird vibes come up, don't be afraid to end it. You deserve way better treatment!