This literally makes no sense to me. A man cheats its his fault, if a woman cheats, its his fault. Its almost as if women are immune to personal accountability.
I asked a question earlier "Am I wrong for not giving my wife another chance after she asked for open relationship?"
And about 50% of the female responses were justifying her actions and accusing me of some kind of wrong doing. Said question is linked below.
So for an update on that question, I went through her emails and her text messages while she was sleeping last night, She was getting very sexual via text, and sending nudes.. THIS IS CHEATING..
Suffice it to say, the divorce is going to happen. We are not in a community property state, so my home, which i owned before i met her, will remain 100% mine. Because she works outside of the home and spends very little time parenting she is basically guaranteed to not get full custody of the children. No i have not told the kids about this. I have no idea how to even break it to them, cause i dont want to bad mouth mom to the kids.. Im considering therapy for both my self and my children.. Also DNA testing, though it won't matter as they are mine even if DNA says they aren't.
So please explain to me, how the hell is her choices, her decision to be a cheater my fault? Please explain that?
Am I wrong for not giving my wife another chance after she asked for open relationship?
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Just to be clear, 2/5 responses on a random forum with a disproportionately high rate of degenerates said that you probably should have seen it coming.
Just to be clear, I believe all forms of cheating are disgusting and degenerate. A long with sex outside of marriage. So yeah it's gross that she is like that, but that didn't come out of nowhere for sure. And you can't really be surprised when a marriage born from promiscuity fails anyway.
No disagreement
Because women, and society in general, tend to always see women as good and men as bad, women are victims and men as perpetrators.