Once cheating is discovered in a relationship marriage, it is over. Don't even try to salvage it. Don't forgive them because you never will. You will always have distrust. You'll never believe everything they say and I'll tell you this. I guarantee you that ain't the first time they cheated. They probably been doing it for years. They just happen to get caught that one time and believe me that ain't going to be last time. Come on. That's why I don't give a cheater a second chance. It's like I read this book. I know how it ends at the ending ain't going to change regardless of the forgiveness I give in all that it's going to be the same ending. That's real with a cheater and they can swear to God and run up to heaven. Pull God back down here and say be my witness garden. I promise I won't cheat man look that's temporary. That's temporary cheater to me. Stay single. Why get involved in a relationship just to cheat. If your ass know you going to cheat and stay single okay and be honest that way instead of putting people through the heartache man or woman and women she just as much as men do the same goddamn thing but they just deflected and put it all on men menace men as a dog. Women just don't take you know responsibility for their actions on that end. But they do the same goddamn thing as men do and worse. Believe me
The defination of cheating can mean different things to different people. Some believe
flirtatious texting behind your partners back is considered cheating, whilst others don't even see a kiss on the cheek as cheating.
I would firstly be a friend and listen to their reason for this action. I would thereafter suggest what I believe they should do in this matter. Generally I would say, tell your partner everything. But if your partner has a low tolerance or is an abuser, I would consider alternative ways to help them out.
I don't believe once a cheater, always a cheater phrase. Generally people cheat because of underline reasons and most importantly don't communicate with each other. If you cheat despite having the best relationship, well then its a matter of mental disorder.
Again the level of what is considered cheating differs from people to people. I still believe with love, strong bond and a lot of communication one can forgive and move on. Especially if there are kids involved.
I would tell my friend cheating is not ok but it wouldn't affect our friendship. Yes once a cheat always a cheat is best to follow, people can change but rarely, besides cheating diminish most important thing in a relationship - trust, so its often unsalvageable.
I forgave him but yes this maybe true. Our trust is broken. I always ask who he is talking too, what people he hangs around etc...
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Many times yes. I do believe if someone genuinely feels bad and turns to Christ. He can forgive and change them. But unless and until that happens. I never trust someone again. Even if they do that.
Can I forgive someone? I can. But that doesn’t mean I’m going to go running back to them. I usually am careful who I choose. I’m not picking any Jane off the street or online.
Yes , but it doesn’t necessarily mean that person will cheat again , it just means that person is a cheater period , When it comes down to close friends cheating , I just give them advice and tell them how wrong it was for them to do , I don’t put myself in the middle of their relationship , I stay out of it as much as possible , I use to be the type of person that got involved and realized it usually backfires on you , so it mainly comes
Down to why they cheated on the first place
I've never seen this question asked before; "Once a cheater, have you asked yourself if monogamy is not for you?" I believe if people asked themselves this question, they would be much further along the way to figuring out what kind of relationships they really want going forward.
If a close friend confided in me that they've cheated, I'm not going to "unfriend" them no matter what my views are on the subject. What I would do is ask them why and what do you think is best for both of you going forward. It's none of my business to intervene by telling the other partner, even if I'm friends with both of them.
well if it is a male friend i wouldn't give much fuck about it since i am not losing a friend for a girl who i don't really give a fuck about.
if it was a female friend who was cheating i would immediately go to the poor guy, i don2t have to be friends with him i am not letting the whore do this to him or let that whore ever came close to me ever again.
Have yet to meet to a cheater that has stopped cheating. So yes once a cheater always a cheater. If you or anyone else wants to take that chance go for it. When they cheat don't start crying cause you made a bad choice to get with someone who was going to cheat anyways
I do believe in "once a cheater always a cheater". Once someone has cheaten for the first time, what's gonna stop them from cheating again? The first one is always the barrier, after that, they're lost.
If a close friend admitted to cheating. I would tell the truth to him and say how disgusted I am. But I'm not 100% sure if I woudl tell his partner about it. Depends on how good I know him/her.
LOL. Me and my SO both cheat. When she admitted to having a side guy, I admitted to visiting prostitutes instead of getting angry. We both came to the conclusion that neither of us wanted to break up but neither of us wanted to stop cheating, either. She's still with him although they now live in different countries, so they go away on holiday a couple times a year and I'm still going to the old whorehouse.
Tigers never change their stripes, they just learn to camouflage better.
I wouldn't consider a cheater a close friend, ever. why? can't trust them. no exceptions.
I think so. Not to say there aren’t serious people who learned their lesson, but that’s rare.
Majority of cheaters are like serial killers. Get a taste for it. Love living on the edge or whatever. Double lives.
Speaking from personal experience, so far I’m doing good.
They always have the mental ability to stray and justify it to themselves. It doesn't mean they will though.
I can not control what others do so I am not going to judge others. As for the saying, anyone can change if they choose to.
Not always, but often enough that I would forever question the person's integrity.
I would cut contact with them and tell their partner.
Yes. I would never trust them.
With men, absolutely.
Yes.
Till death
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