Isn't it crazy how I would have had at least one romantic relationship by now if I was born gay?

[Ryan210000]

I am saying this because all the straight average and ugly guys that never had a romantic relationship due to their looks would have at least one if they were born gay. There have always been more gay and bi guys that were less picky with who they chose as a romantic partner than straight and bi females. I never had a romantic relationship cause I am ugly. I can't make myself gay cause the thought makes me throw up and I dont wish I was born gay. I am just saying I would of had at least one romantic relationship.

[SueShe]

Don't you think it is up to others to define whether you are ugly or not? People are usually very bad judges at assessing their own looks because they place very high goals on themselves. People are easily manipulated by media and peers on what is a good look and what not and you seem to believe those media and opinions.

While romantic relationships may be nice in the beginning, they tend to fade with time and become more toxic than anything else unless of course, one does not express their opinions and agree to the opinions of others just for the sake to keep peace. That is when frustrations emerge.

[Ryan210000]

It is logical sense I fit the general conception of ugly due to never having a

[Ryan210000]

Girlfriend. And it is logical sense that other guys in human history fit the general conception of ugly or average if they never had a girlfriend either.

[docster]

That's an interesting thought that never occurred to me. I've been approached buy guys on a number of occasions but of course I'm not interested. I blame my lack of female companionship on my social anxiety and weight more than my facial appearance but I understand what it's like to be without a woman.
I try to remember what the apostle Paul said about singleness. He said that by remaining single we'd avoid a lot of trouble in life. Someone else also said that it's better to be single, wishing you were married than to be married, wishing you were single.