My ex contacted me wishing me happy birthday I got mad bc he broke no contact after telling me to not contact him because he had a new girlfriend, we argued but at the end he reassured me and asked me “ Is it ok if I call you ally” the nickname he gave me when we were dating before he called me Alice then switched it up why would he do this?
even weirder part is when we were broken up 2 months ago he stopped calling me by my nickname because he wanted to get away from me now he is calling me it again? Anyone know why
3 mo
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Hmm that is weird that your ex started using your nickname again out of the blue like that, after telling you not to contact him. A few thoughts on why he might be doing it:
- He may not be fully over you yet and calling you by the special nickname is his way of still feeling connected to the relationship, even though he says he has a new girlfriend. Some lingering feelings there possibly.
- He could be confused about his feelings and trying to get a reaction from you by using the nickname to see if you still have feelings too. Testing the waters kind of thing.
- Maybe he's having doubts about his new relationship and reaching out to you makes him feel comfortable/validated in a way she doesn't yet. Looking for that familiar bond.
- It could just be habit for him because that's what he always called you when you were together. But weird he'd start again now when trying to distance before.
Honestly I'd be wary of getting too caught up communicating since he said no contact before. Watch out for mixed signals if he's not fully moved on from you emotionally. Proceed carefully and do what's best for your own feelings!
He wants to use your pussy again he remembers how Fun
It is and if you were the girl he gave a nickname to out of fondness would likely give it to him without all
The bs relationships have
Leave it